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Friday, May 24, 2013

I got my first hate mail

Hater's email to me:

"Fuck off gook."

Okay, in the eyes of this racist, I'm an Asian man so to him I am a gook. How much are you willing to bet that this gook hater who feels the need to call Asian men gooks actually like Asian women? I'm willing to bet a whole lot. If he ever does get caught calling an Asian man a gook, and will have to justify his racism, this is what he will say:

"I want to apologize for my remark and to the Asian community. I am a grown man and I should be responsible for my actions and words. I just want you all to know that I am not a racist because my wife is Asian."

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Friday, May 17, 2013

10 Different types of Asian women

1. The Insecure Asian woman - This one wishes that she had been born a different race. She is so insecure of being Asian, seen, labeled or referred to as one that she does everything in her power to distant herself from being Asian. She purposely distant herself from being associated with Asians by dating anyone that is NOT ASIAN just so she thinks that she won't be seen or classified as another Asian person or couple. She is so insecure of her own ethnicity that she is desperately trying to be accepted amongst other non Asians especially in the eyes of White and even Black people. This type has disqualified Asian men as sexual partners not because we are unworthy or non sexual, but because of her own insecurity and bitterness of being Asian that she takes it out on Asian men by not only refusing to date us but also put us down through comparison with the White man or talking about how useless, or small our dicks our etc in the presence of non Asian men as to justify in her mind why she doesn't date Asian men. This type has the infamous line "I don't date Asian guys." (which really means, although I'm Asian, so in other words I hate being Asian so much that when I see an Asian guy it reminds me of myself and I hate myself for being Asian).


How to spot this type of Asian woman:

  • Ones that dyes their hair blond and tries to change their appearance to look more White or those that dress and act Black. They try to change their Asian appearances by pretending to act and look like something they are not.

  • Other obvious signs are for example, two Asian men are sitting on one end of the train. They don't know each other. An Asian women comes in at the next stop and sits down across from them. She sees that its all Asians on one side and she quickly gets up and moves to the other side of the train (even though its a lot more crowded) and squeezes in next to an elderly Black man. Trust me, I've seen this happen with my own eyes and you can see it in her eyes of her own insecurity and shame of who and what she is, Asian.

  • When you look at one and they meet your stare they instantly roll their eyes and look away as in "I'm too good for you and I don't like Asian men"

  • Even women of other races recognize and address this type of Asian woman self hate in this article

  • A perfect real life example. An Asian woman admits that she doesn't date Asian men because she is a racist of her own!


http://www.xojane.com/it-happened-to-me/asian-woman-dating-asian-men-jenny-an

An Article that discusses Asian women purposely seeking Non Asian men http://goldsea.com/Air/Issues/Divide/divide_21108.html

2. The Asian woman with Daddy issues - I don't know if their dads stuck his finger in  her butt as an adolescent but this type of Asian woman hates their Dad and in turn thinks all Asian men in the world are like her Dad and becomes bitter, spiteful, and hateful of Asian men. Perhaps, her Dad was truly a loser, possibly abusing her Mom and the kids, the alcoholic or gambling type, or the type that abandons the family. Whatever the reason, this kind of Asian woman failed to understand that just because your Dad was that kind of Asian man doesn't mean that ALL Asian men including the American born Generation with Western thinking are like that. It's like saying that all Black men are criminals, drug dealers or jobless bums. This kind of Asian woman not only disqualifies Asian men as lovers but goes on a personal jihad to discriminate, attack us verbally through press, media, writings or bad mouth and degrade Asian men further contributing to the negative stereotypes that have been put on Asian men in the western world.

Perfect examples of this type: Amy Tan, author of the Joy Luck Club. That whole book is defamation, discriminating, and promoting negative untruthful stereotype of Asian men. I don't know how this book never made it on the Southern Poverty Law's List for its racist material.  Oh yeah right, when racism is direct at Asian men, no one cares.

3. The Aftermarket Trash Asian Woman - This type of Asian woman gets pumped and dumped by White men or Non Asian men with yellow fever for most of her youth until the biological clock is ticking and she still finds herself single and no longer desired by Men of other races. When she is old, ugly, and undesired by Non Asian men she resorts to settling for Asian men who are desperate and dumb enough to wed her and essentially become her provider after she becomes after market trash and been pumped and dumped countless number of times by Non Asian men. This type of Asian women will always have excuses on why she never dated Asian men with "Asian men never hit on me before for some reason" as being their most famous line. Bitch, did you ever wonder it was perhaps you never gave them the time of day until your face got wrinkles and pussy got stretched out? 

This Asian woman said she was sick of white guys using for her sex and not calling her after so she decided to date Asian men. If an Asian man decides to use her for anything other than a pump and dump then he essentially taking a aftermarket trash Asian woman. He deserves better, and he should know it

Other types of this Asian woman:

4. The Hypocrite Asian Woman - She argues that Asian men are bitter and whiners when Asian women date White or other Non Asian men. She thinks its a free country and they have a right to choose their own destiny and date/fuck whoever they want. You know what? Sadly I will have to agree with them. No one can tell another who they should or could date. It's up to that individual to make their own choice. However, when Asian women see Asian men dating Non Asian women they instantly get bitter and jealous. They absolutely show no class and tend to stare impolitely, whisper comments in their Asian female friends or White boyfriends ear and downright glare, stare or try to compete with the Asian man's non Asian girlfriend. They are hypocrites, they think its alright for them to have interracial dating but when Asian men get with White or Non Asian women they can't stop staring or glaring.

My personal experiences:

  • When I was dating the girl from Turkmenistan, I took her to a Shanghai Dumpling restaurant in NYC. This is a very popular spot so you can imagine it gets extremely crowded. We ended up sharing a table with 2 to 3 unknown groups. One of the group and a nasty, bitter Asian woman that can't looking at us like we were a side attraction of a circus freak show. My girlfriend at the time was eating and she just stared and her profusely making my girl so uncomfortable that she looked at the table to eat. The bitter, jealous, and racist look in this Asian girl's eyes said everything, she didn't even have to open her mouth to say it. I remember noticing this so I looked right at her and she saw me looking at her so she quickly looked away. I was 3 years younger at the time and not quite as confident or assertive as I am now but if that were to happen today, I will take my Non Asian girl and kiss her right in front of that bitter and jealous Asian girl. Why not? Asian women with non Asian men are always doing that to us, on the subway, in our restaurants, in our communities. Have to fight fire with fire and not sit around feeling sorry and bitter for ourselves no longer.

  • Second experience was when I took the American girl from Seattle to a late night snack in Chinatown. The Chinese waitress was so nasty with us that she caused my Seattle girl to say "You think she is giving us this poor treatment because we are a AM/WF couple? Quite possibly so. I'm willing to bet on it.

  • I was on a date with a Italian girl and I took her to a noodle shop. The Chinese girl working there was immediately nasty with us, giving us a dirty look while taking our order that caused my girl to say, "what's her problem?" The answer to that was obvious, which we both already knew

  • If any other Asian men have these similar experiences with bitter Asian women when you were with a Non Asian girl please leave a comment and share your experience. It doesn't only have to be bitter Asian women but bitter Non Asian men that don't like to see an Asian man with their women as well.

5. The FOB Asian woman - Comes to America and gets corrupted by Western thinking. She has to explain to White and Black men as in why she is attracted to Asian men (her own men) because these color folks can't seem to believe that Asian men can still be desired by their own women. This type of Asian woman will either get corrupted with Western thinking such as white is right or believe the negative stereotypes about her own Asian men. She will have more options and now she will fuck all types of men not limiting to Black and even middle eastern men and justifying it by saying "she is experimenting." I can't think of a race of women besides White women that need to experiment but even so, the majority of White women prefer to be with their own kind. Eventually after she has fucked anything with a penis she is ready to settle down with an Asian man (who will willingly accept to be her provider and working himself to death while she doesn't do anything for him in return except get the leftover pussy that has been ravaged by all types of savages). Sometimes the FOB Asian woman will marry a White man to become more Americanized and eventually look down on her own people even though she wasn't even born here to start with. Her half breed kids won't know about being Asian, wont' feel proud being Asian, and even become embarrass to admit that they are Asian. 

My experience: I was in a bakery somewhere in an Asian community in NYC and a FOB Chinese woman was with a White man and she proceeded to curse, yell, degrade and demand things like she was some sort of royalty. It was obvious that she was talking down on the bakery employees and trying to elevate herself because in her head she thought she was better and more "American" because she was with a White man. I was sitting there with a friend and couldn't take anymore of it so I got up and told her if she wasn't happy then "get the fuck out." She proceeded to curse me out in her broken English and I was seconds away from slapping her right in the face and fucking him up if he got in the way. He was smart and dragged her out of there. The Bakery employees just shook their hands and said "crazy."

I recently hit on this Fob Asian woman you see in the picture above. She told me that she is from Seoul, S. Korea and moved here in the states for just over a year. Since then she has been dating Black, white, Black and white mix and anything but Asian. She explains, "it's the more American thing to do."

6. The Asian woman who thinks she has Asian Pride - She claims she is full of Asian pride and is proud to be Asian but yet she only dates Non Asian men. This type of  Asian woman will be so proud of being Asian that when there are Asian holidays like Chinese New Year, or a Japanese manga convention she feels the need to parade around her White, black, Hispanic or even Indian boyfriend around the events and make us Asian guys look pathetic and shamed because we can't keep our own women. There are so much of these types that they even outnumber Asian couples. Here in NYC, the only Asian couples you see are the immigrant ones, and when you do see an American born Asian couple its like a rare occurrence.

  • This type of Asian woman feels the need to take her Non Asian boyfriend to try out her culture's food. For instance a Korean woman takes her White boyfriend to Korea town to try Korean food. She parades and hold his hand like she is above everyone else because she is with a White man. This type of Asian women always pays for the food and drinks at these restaurants because it was "her offer."  Quite sad, because Asian women will never pay for an Asian man EVER, and that is if she is willing to date one.

  • These Asian women tend to parade their NON ASIAN man around Asian culture events, festivals, neighborhoods, restaurants thinking they are above everyone else. The ironic part is, all this culture that she thinks she so proud of that she feels the need to introduce or show her Non Asian man were indeed created by Asian men, NOT Asian women. Asian women are so proud of the culture Asian men created and she feels the need to share it with other races but yet hates on her own men. Essentially this is no different then a White man saying he hates Asian people but he wants an Asian girlfriend. (Trust me, there are a lot of those out there).


7. The Asian woman that prefers Asian men - I'm sorry to say, but I have seen, met and knew very few of these types of Asian women. This refers to the Asian American women (not counting for the FOB population).  Here in NYC I see about one Asian American couple to every 7 or 8, WM/AF or NAM/AF. How sad is that? The Asian woman that prefers Asian men fall into 3 different categories.

  • The first and the LEAST in numbers is the attractive Asian female that is successful and independent and is very western and American minded but prefers Asian men of her caliber.

  • Second is the dorky, chubby, or ugly Asian female that prefers Asian men of higher/same quality

  • Third are the Asian women in the little Asian clicks where everyone is a carbon copy of themselves. (ex: Wearing the same North face jackets, Abercombie and Fitch, American Eagle, etc. Talk the same way, using the same slang, everyone knows everyone). They can either be college clicks, nerdy clicks, or the gangsta wannabe bad boy/bad girl clicks. These types of Asian women barely open up or even get to know anyone out of their own clicks or social circles.

8. Sleeping with the enemy Asian woman - This one is literally. I'm not talking about going out with different races or neglecting Asian men, I literally mean sleeping with the enemy. When Japan went to war with the USA back in WWII, many Japanese brides open more than just their arms to the American GI's but their legs as well. Many hooked up with GI's and even went back home to the USA with the American soldiers as their brides. While their Japanese men are in the service fighting and dying to defend their country and its people, this type of Asian woman is servicing the enemy's cock. Same goes for the Vietnam war, while countless Vietnamese are laying dead, their women are fucking, wedding and breeding with the enemy. While I am not taking any sides in the war itself, I think its extremely low that these Asian women can sleep with the very same men that kill their countrymen, husbands, brothers, sons, cousins, friends, etc. Where is the loyalty for the men, their country and their people?
http://www.worthington.org/archives/49/Japanese%20War%20Brides%20Talk%20final.pdf

9. Asian women with smelly vaginas - Very disgusting. I've been with a few who can't seem to notice that their vaginas STINK. My biker friend has also confirmed this with me telling me that a few of his Asian conquests stunk below the belt. It smells like cabbage, rotten eggs, 3 day old garbage or a bag of sweaty gym sucks marinating in the corner. Bitch, learn to take a bar of soap and scrub down there.

Ways to spot an Asian woman that has a smelly vagina.

Start first with the way they dress. Do they take care of their appearance and look like they took the time to look attractive and presentable? If they do chances are they took the time to smell nice too. Take a look at their personal hygiene. Does their hair appeared washed? Clothes look clean? Leg's and armpits shaved? Toenails and fingernails trimmed and cleaned? If no, be warned and STAY AWARE. If they don't take the time to practice good hygiene chances are they don't clean down there. They will have a smelly Asian vagina.

What happens if you find out that an Asian woman has a smelly vagina only after when you are already having sex?

If there is a point where you looked for all the red flags that I mentioned above and still find out that an Asian woman has a smelly vagina only after you are already fucking, I suggest you stick your cock in, soak up the smelly cunt juice, pull it back out and force her to suck on it. That's what I did

10. The Gold-digger/Freeloader Asian woman

Every race of women has their share of gold diggers. There is no doubt that Asian women are close to the top of that list if not on top already. Asian women are extremely materialistic, they tend to look at things like finances, career and the type of car a man drives to consider him as a sexual partner. When it comes to selecting Asian men as mates, their standards are even higher. A poor white or black man will have it easier since supposedly an Asian women would view them as quote on quote "American" and it will be an upgrade for her in terms of social status but with Asian men we need to have the finances, the looks, the social circle, the car, the ability to fix her broken laptop, how to plump a toilet or fix the light (even if we never had any electrical knowledge or hands on in our lives) the ability to pay for all shopping, slit our wrists to give her blood if she needs it, etc etc.

My experiences:

I went out with plenty of Asian women had never once had one attempted to genuinely pay for anything. I never even met an Asian woman that was willing to do pay at least 20% while dating me.

In this return of kings post, it shows that not only Asian American women are becoming more and more about the dollars but now in Asian countries like China, Korea, and Japan they look only for men with money. If you Asian men thought you had it bad here, our Asian brethren in Asia have it bad too.

http://www.returnofkings.com/9387/when-east-meets-west

Solution: Branch out. STOP DATING ONLY ASIAN WOMEN. Date Non Asian women, start talking, pursuing, and actively desire a Non Asian woman. Make it on your list of things to do and fuck

All Asian woman will fall into one of these categories. Some might be 100% spot on in one category while some others might be a bit of each combined. I've been around too many Asian women to be told otherwise and I know, heard and even have Asian women in my own family along with other people families that are real life examples and the reasons why I created some of these categories. So if there is any Asian women reading this I have a Question. What Asian woman are you?

Saturday, May 4, 2013

The Finnish girl that got away

Lately I've been only dating White American and European women. This would be something to brag about but I'm sorry to say I haven't been able to finish off (in other words, stick my cock into their vaginas)  any of them thus far. I have a few girls and a few stories to tell but let's me start with the Finish girl.

I returned to couchsurfers under the notion of wanting to host and share cultures but my true intentions was wanting to actually share sex fluids instead with random traveling girls. I do what I normally do which is message a bunch of random girls by copy and pasting the same message and only changing the name of each of the girls I message in the subject line. The only thing was this time I was specifically targeting only white girls and avoiding all other ethnicity including Asian. Racist? Perhaps, but a man should know what he wants and I knew I wanted white tail.

Gaming tip: How to find white girls that like or might be interested in Asian men on couchsurfers? The answer is quite simple.

*Note: the Finnish girl had a bit from each category. On her profile, she traveled and stayed in China for a month, had a picture of her posing by a bunch of Chinese scholar statues and an Asian guy who was her former host left a review.


I messaged the Finnish girl offering to show her around the city. (I don't offer a bed at my place as one reason being just in case I don't get along with her, I don't have to put up with her in my home. I normally meet them beforehand either for lunch or to show them around before I make a decision and offer a couch after). She accepted my offer and we meet on a Saturday afternoon in the city. I was rocking my leather biker jacket, hellfire jeans and black boots and the moment she looked at me I could somewhat tell she liked my look. She was excited that I bought my motorbike with me with an extra helmet and she was ready to hop on with no fear. From the start, I immediately was touchy with her to let her know I was interested in her physically. The fact that the extra helmet I had couldn't fit her small head gave me the opportunity to help her tighten the strap. While helping her with the helmet I rubbed her cheeks, accidentally somehow brushed my thumb against her lips, etc, all the while looking into her eyes. She looked away though but that didn't faze me. We rode around the city and I took her to a good spot for viewing the city. She was making comments like "ooh this is nice'" most of the time especially when we were riding the outer lane on a bridge with the barrier being the only separation from plunging down into Manhattan's east river and the NYC skyline. After the motorcycle tour we grabbed something to eat and I decided to suggest for us to have a drink in my neighborhood. She agreed and we proceeded to take the long ride back to my hood. (At this point I've already been steadily closing the physical gap by touching her gently in the back when guiding her to walk in a certain direction or grab and hold her leg while on my motorbike during a red light when I turn around to explain a certain area of town or pointing out a landmark).

We get to close to my neighborhood and I decided that having a drink at a bar was a waste of time. The whole point was to lure her to my place where I can get her tipsy and then initiate sex, so I cooked up an excuse that worked perfectly.

Me: "You know that wine bar i mentioned is kind of on the expensive side."

Finnish girl: "Oh, that's not good."

(Knowing she was a broke couch surfer who didn't want to spend too much money, I gave her an alternative)

Me: "I have wine at my place. Let's go to my place instead."

FG: (hesitant) "I think the bar is better."

Me: "The bar is expensive for just one drink. We are going to my place, my wine is free."

(Notice how I didn't give her a choice. The most she can do at this point is just say no or follow orders)

FG: "Okay."

One thing I learned is never give a girl to make a direct choice at a time like that. It was likely she already wanted to come over and sex was probably already on her mind, she can't agree to it directly because then she will feel like she is allowing this to happen on her own. But with me being assertive and confident in my decision she can now just tell herself she is following me or going with the flow.

We ride over to my place and I park the bike as she waits in front of my building. I walk on over and she follows me inside my building. The Mexicans that live in the building are hanging outside and look at me bringing this white girl home....

 

To be Continued....