1. When there is a White girl with an Asian girl you should always check out the white girl. The Asian girl would in turn get jealous and would find ways to get your attention. In her mind she can't understand why you chose a white girl over her. I tried this with an Asian girl with a married Jewish last name....I figured, ew...heres another one of those (10 Things to know about Asian Women)....so I starting checking out the white girl. Instantly on the way back I catch the Asian with a Jewish last name looking at me. (Gross but point made). White girls hanging out with Asians also means the possibility that she is open to dating Asian men
2. This is for the White girls that like Asian men: Want to know what kind of Asian guys that might like Non Asian girls? Try the ones with ponytails....An Asian guy with a ponytail are outside the norm of Asians and might be making a statement with it. They tend to be more open with their choices in life and with women. Personally I've seen many ponytail Asians dating white girls and I for one was dating the girl from Spain when I had my ponytail. So go figure...
If you don't like ponytails than try Asians that ride motorcycles. Asian guys that hang out with friends of different races. Asian guys that major in film, theater or acting.
3. Black girls like Asian Men. I know....I've been hit on plenty of times by Black girls. It was either co workers or random girls telling me I'm hot and asking me out. If your open to dating Black girls I would say you have a great chance since there quite a few ads on craigslist with titles: "Ebony girl for Asian guy." Just ask for that pic. A clear pic with a good angle and a body shot. Many of them can be a little on the plus side so take that pic as your insurance policy. I noticed that Black girls tend to be more bold and if they like you they would ask you out or tell you. They were the only type of girls that I dealt with that takes the initiative. Unfortunately for myself, I've yet to find one that I am physically attracted to. Personally, I would prefer a open minded, kind, petite slim Black girl with a European accent. If you fit the description, then drop a message here :)
4. Never take dating advice from a Woman. A woman would give you advice on her own personal preferences. She would tell you to get and do the things that she likes, doesn't mean necessarily the girl your going after would like it. Plus, you shouldn't be listening to a woman anyways. You are a man....Women like alpha males that are dominant and make their own decisions with confidence and stands by it. Listening to a woman makes you a Beta male. Did old tribal village Alpha males listen to any of their wives? No....they dominated and probably got plenty of sex because of it. A woman would fight and compete to keep a strong man. They will walk all over a weak one. The only time a woman should be involved is when she supports your decision, encourages it and stands by you.
5. Every man should always have multi sex options. What I mean is that if you have a girlfriend, you should still have a side thing with another one unless your the faithful type (I sure hope she is worth it and treats you right in turn). If your dating around and nothing serious then it's essential that you have a few options available. Reason being is if one girl doesn't give you sex that week, you won't come off as needy or bitter because of it since you have the next option fulfilling your sexual needs. You will come off as cool and whatever type of attitude which drives women crazy! Women can sense if a man has many options and has sex with a lot of women. They find this more attractive and in turn compete to get your attention and try to win you over. If you have one sex option then that means putting all your eggs in one basket and putting all your attention in one woman. Women can sense that too and its a major turnoff for them. They will lose interest in you as quickly as the cum that shoots out of your dick.
6. You will be surprised that most women have the same or more sexual partners than men. that When a woman says she slept with 10 guys, times that amount by 2 and you will have the real number.
7. Long distance relationships never work so don't even try it......If a man likes a woman enough, he can endure.....Women on the other hand, can't wait. They need the physical intimacy and if they don't have it, they will seek it elsewhere. Trust me on this one, because I've been through it quite a few times. If you want to be an international player, make sure you don't get to attached to any one girl....because if you do, that high you had while out there will come crashing down once your back in your home country.
8. Most women sexual experimenting years would be during the start of their college years; 18 to about about 24 or 25. Once they get past that point, they are looking to settle down. They understand that nature is calling, and they are moving out of their prime and need to find a steady mate before she gets old and no one wants her and she cant' have her babies. White and Asian women are the most likely to have multiple partners of different races. More so then your Black or Hispanic woman. Most Asian women I've come across have already slept with White, Black, Hispanic and even Indian men. Now that's something I need to think about before I kiss either one of her lips (top or bottom).
9. Never answer to dating ads by Asian women when they list Asian men as a second choice. For instance, a CL or dating ad that goes like this: "Single Asian woman seeking White or Asian male." Why the fuck are we second place? Are we leftovers in case she can't find her first choice of a white male....Don't settle on being second place. Fuck that.....I can understand if a white woman puts; "SWF seeking SWM or SAM," but an Asian women putting her own men in second place over another race is like saying your not good enough but I'll still consider you all the vanilla ice cream is sold out. Have some self respect and don't even consider these cunts.
10. Don't listen to your Asian parents. Love them but don't listen to them. Their teachings and traditional Asian culture is not cut out for this cut throat world of the Survival of the Fittest that we have here in the states. In a country where race matters, Asian culture breeds their men to be shy, quiet, reserved, gentle, and bookworms which in turn makes us lose out on many fronts. Asians are also the most targeted group for bullies, black and Hispanic kids love to target Asian kids because they are easy prey. My point is to embrace your heritage and carry on the culture but also adjust and adapt. Accept your culture and simultaneously adjust it to be able to survive and thrive in your current environment.
That's it for now.....if I think of anything else, I will update
One thing Asian guys have over White guys when approaching Asian girls is the common culture so if you meet a girl with some common cultural background, exploit that for all it is worth. On the other hand, this won't work with an overly Americanized Asian girl and may work against you if she is white washed - but then she's probably not of interest anyway if that is the case.
ReplyDeleteSince MOST girls want a guy that is taller than them, make sure you remember that when approaching a girl. If she is significantly taller than you, you will have to amaze her with your personality and other things. It can be done - Tom Cruise is like 5'5" tall and most of his wives/gf's have been taller than him....
It also helps that Tom Cruise is a rich and successful movie star which helps him pretty much get any woman he wants. As for regular short guys, they can stick with shorter girls and if not then its all a numbers game. They have to be willing to put in the work and hit on as many girls as they can....Be prepared to deal with rejection more so then their taller counterparts but approaching/initiating is the only way. With the right game and confidence they will eventually land a girl taller then them.
ReplyDeleteYeah, that's what I meant by "other things". These "things" include money,power and success - the trick is letting them know you have it without letting them know you have it.....
ReplyDeleteSense of humor only works if you genuinely have one. Intelligence always works but pick the right topic to demonstrate it with - not technology!
#10 is spot on. Our Asians parents and their values makes us weak. It doesn't drill that competitive attitude and self-confidence you need to succeed in the US. Being quiet, meek, obedient is going to get you in a lot of trouble in life, they're just clueless when it comes to raising strong capable sons. It's sad, but true and I don't regret breaking away from that culture, Asian societies do not produce strong (physically and mentally) sons and A type individuals, the guys I know who break out of that mold are so much happier and well adjusted for it (there's exceptions of course). Overall, Asians parent's advice, especially wrt to women are to be disregarded.
ReplyDeleteVery well said. Feeling of self confidence, self worth and standing up and speaking out for yourself very important for any person especially men and Asian culture raises us to become opposites. We Asian men of similar backgrounds need to understand that and break out of that cycle. Be proud of your heritage but work on yourself and self improvement to be not considered a second class male here in America.
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