How I made my girl "squirt"

WARNING: THIS POST IS EXTREMELY SEXUAL IN CONTENT. READ ONLY IF YOU CAN HANDLE THE X-RATED DETAILS.

I used to think girls squirting during an orgasm was something that only happened in the porno movie category. Last night, I am proud to say I found out the wet truth about girls squirting personally. By the end of it, a large patch of my blanket (which was under her pussy) was completely soaked. I pulled the blanket off and let it dry by the heater and continued to work on my girl's pussy. She was beginning to soak my sheets. I had to take a old t shirt and rag to put under her pussy to stop my sheets and mattress from getting soaked. She squirted 3 times at least I was quite surprised when I saw it squirt the first time. Juice and white cream was all over and her pussy and pubes were soaked. It was a job well done.



How I did it:

1. First, I didn't give my girl any dick or sex of any sort for 2 weeks. (reason being, I had a FWB on the side satisfying my needs) but I left my girl sex deprived and on the verge of explosion

2. Took her out for a nice meal. Had a good time

3. Came back home, not too late. Still early evening. Since it was so early, there was pletny of energy left in us both.

4. Turned on some music, and then surprised her by tossing her on the bed.

5. Had a nice make out session with a lot of tongue action. Got her turned on to the point she was breathing heavy with her eyes closed in la la land.

6. Played some Japanese porn on my computer and turned the screen over to the bed.

7. Started off by teasing, tonguing and sucking her nipples. Left all her clothes on. Just gave foreplay to her upper body, breasts, and neck. Rubbed her pussy with my hand with her pants still on.

8. Really focused on foreplay to get her turned on to the point where she was hot and heavy. Only then did I proceed to take the panties proceed off

9. Continue to suck on her nipples while slowly and gently taking my index and middle finger to locate her clit. She was soaking wet at this point. Used her own wetness to lubricate the tip of her clit. Starting to web gently and stimulate

10. Talked dirty. My girl loves dirty talk. I started to talk dirty telling how I loved her hard nipples and her wet wet pussy. Continued to talk dirty while stimulating her nipples and clit.

11. After 5 minutes or less, magic happens. First squirt

12. Let the juices flow. After the first squirt, I gave her some hard dick. I pounded her hard and fast and talked dirty. Her eyes nearly rolled into the back of her head and the rest you can leave to your imagination ;)



How can you tell if it's cum or pee? 

1. First and foremost, when a girl squirts, it comes out of her urethra (the same hole where she pees). It does not squirt from the vaginal hole like many has come to believe

2. How far does she squirt? In porno movies, it tends to exaggerate when a girl can squirt and hit a cockroach from across the room. Honestly, I don't think this is possible. A genuine orgasmic female squirt should only shoot a few inches at most.

3. Does it smell like urine? Is it warm? If it is really cum it won't have the typical piss smell that is so distinctive. Also if she is squirting, check to see if the fluid is warm. As we all know, urine should be warm. If it is cool, it is cum

4. Check your girl's reaction. If she is shaking, her eyes rolled in the back of her head and she is moaning, than she is more than likely cumming than pissing. What was the last time someone took a piss with those reactions?

5. Check her vaginal hole. She should be extremely wet down there too. If you see white fluids coming out and streaming from her vaginal hole, it means she is extremely turned on and the fluid squirting from her urethra is cum, not pee.

6. Remember, when a woman has an orgasm, the bladder shuts off the gland that allows her to urine. It is the same with men, when we cum do we shoot piss?

7. After she squirts and sex is over, she should feel the need to pee in a few minutes. Many women have experienced that they need to urinate after having an orgasm. Ask your girl if she had a lot of pee and was it yellow? If she says yes, I doubt she was squirting previously.

If you see all these signs, then give yourself a pat on the back. You are the man. You can say you made your girl squirt. If this doesn't give you bragging rights, I don't know what will. When you cuddle afterwards, she should be extra loving of you. You just gave her the ride of her life. She should look at you with wide open loving eyes, as in "I love you, and I'm fucking never going to let you go."

The Asian Whore

Asian women never fail to stoop to a even more all time low. Their arrogance, their self perceived belief that they are of higher value than others, especially when compared to  Asian men. They believe they are above Asian men, Asian women that date Asian men, and other minorities in terms of social value and status. They see themselves as second to Whites (white men to be more specific and at the same level as white women). Ever see an Asian woman walking around strutting her stuff (like she has any to start with) hanging on the arm of some Non Asian man, laughing and talking like she is the shit? That's what I'm talking about.

I was hanging out in front of my friend's apartment yesterday. She lives in an apartment building and I go there quite often and we have drinks and chill in the hallway of her floor since she shares the apartment with her sister, sister's husband and kid and we didn't want to hang inside talking since it was late (She is non Asian). The elevator door opens and out comes an Asian woman with a overweight bald white guy with a beer belly. They both look tipsy, stumbling down the hallway towards her apartment door. This Asian woman lives on the same floor and my friend explains to me that she doesn't like her, she is a slut, etc. I already had my judgement of what kind of Asian woman she was  at first glance and my friend just re-confirmed it. (Note that my friend is the laid back type of girl that doesn't really gossip, hate, get jealous or cause drama) so when she says it, she is saying because it is true, not because she just wants to bad mouth someone.

The two turn the corner and walk down the hallway out of our sight. The sound of her exaggerated high heels echo through the hallway causing us to stop talking until it stops. It stops and we resume talking, after shaking her heads in a silent disgust. About 5 minutes, the beer belly white guy walks back around the corner and into the elevator. He didn't look happy, I guess he got rejected. Too bad... He gets inside the elevator, the door shuts and goes back down.

We continue to drink and talk in the hallway. About 40 minutes later, we get startled by the sudden opening of the elevator door again. It's around 4am at night....and out comes the beer belly white guy. (Note:the building doesn't have a doorman and you can get in quite easy since people are always hanging out front or walking in and out)  He looks even more drunk than before, like he went back out to a bar and had a few more drinks and walking down the hall with an aggressive body language and frowned expression. He didn't look happy.....and quite honestly the look he had on his face looked unsettling to me...

I didn't care though. I continued to have my drink. My friend and the worried look on her face.

She said: "maybe we should go check it out." He doesn't look like he was invited."

Me: "Personally, I don't care. It's not my business."

She gets up and says: "I'm going to check it out. She does live in my building after all."

She gets up and walks toward the corner to turn the other side of the hallway and I'm still hesitant. I think to myself, "seriously? I'm going to put my ass on the line for somebody else, especially an Asian whore of all people? "

My friend is a small little girl who has a lot of heart but not much in size. I finally decide to get up. I noticed she was walking ever so slowly as in hoping that I would get up and come with her, but yet never asked me to. I can tell she was scared. We turn the corner...

The now creepy beer belly white guy is standing right in front of the door, staring at it but didn't say anything or knock on the door. I didn't even hear the buzzing sound of a doorbell. He didn't acknowledge or even look over to see who was walking over. I walk up and stop just a few paces from him. My friend lingered in the back, her body language conveying that she was obviously scared. It was now that I realized how big this guy actually was as I sized him up. He was about 6'1, and although he had a beer belly, he was quite stocky with broad shoulders and a large upper body frame. He had long arms and big hands (which would ball into a powerful fist). I estimate that he was no less than at least 250lbs. He would have been a formidable foe, and take on the both of us. He wore a hoodie with jeans and had this blue collar tough guy look to him.

I ask him: "Is everything okay?"

He turns his head over. "His eyes were bloodshot red".

Creepy white guy: "I'm just waiting for someone."

He just stood there, staring creepily at the door.

Me: "Do you want me to call her for you. I know her." (I lied. I didn't know her)

CWG: No that's okay.

He just stood there with his hands in his hoodie. This guy was extremely suspicious and creepy. It was obvious that he wasn't invited, and I don't even think he had a number, or even rung her doorbell. He was just standing there looking at the door.

Me: It's late man. I don't think shes going to come out.

He got the point. He knew that we all knew that he was stalking her.

CWG: Okay I'm just going to go.

I was surprised. Even though he was big and tough looking, he was quite soft spoken. Although I didn't feel threatened or any tension, I was definitely creep out and suspicious about his intentions. He walks past us and back towards the elevator. My friend leans back into the wall just to avoid him. We both walk slowly back towards my friends apartment. As we turn the corner we notice the elevator door was still open. We look inside. He is just standing there....his hands her still in his pocket and he stares at us with his bloodshot eyes.

Me: I thought you were going downstairs?

CWG: "I'm trying to but the elevator won't move."

I lean my upper body in to look at the elevator buttons. (For some reason at that moment with my body leaned in, I felt vulnerable and think to myself. He better not attack me). There was nothing pressed. He was just standing inside the elevator waiting. I press the button for him and step out. The door closes. Goodbye creepy white guy. Or goodbye for now...

We sit back down in front of her apartment. We share a laugh. She tells me that she seen this Asian woman bring back quite a few guys to her apartment. (All Non Asian men). She is sure she is not a prostitute but just a whore. Those guys are most likely one night stands because my friend has never seen her with one steady guy and never saw those guys she did bring up ever again. She has never seen that guy before though. We came to the conclusion that perhaps she met him this creepy white guy in a bar and was flashing her whore ass around for attention. He must have offered to buy her a drink and she strung him along acting like she was interested in him, spending his money for free drinks. She probably flirted and teased him got him all excited and pumped up thinking he was going to get lucky for the night. She played him all the way to her apartment building, stringing him along all the way upstairs to her front door (letting him know where she lives) really giving him the illusion that he was going back to her apartment, just to reject him at her door and send him away. She must had completely played this guy. That explains why he walked back to the elevator door five minutes later looking unhappy and rejected. He must have went back out to drink his rejection away just to come back uninvited looking more drunk, unhappy and aggressive. What was this guy's intentions coming back??? We could have been wrong, but I'm quite sure we weren't given the circumstances. He didn't seem like he knew her name when I spoke to him, like they just met drinking at a bar.

Point is, if your not interested in a guy, don't string him along. Using a guy for drinks is low practice that women do but stringing him along all night, building up his belief that you like him, then letting walk you all the way back home just to stop at your front door before giving him the hand is something that only an Asian woman would do. I'm sure this creepy white guy has his Asian fetish *yellow fever that most Non Asian men have to start with but this Asian whore was pushing her luck. What was he doing coming back after a half hour uninvited? What was he doing standing in front of her door and just looking at it? He never did ring a doorbell, knock on the door, or even call her? And if he did, she never did answer the door. But I'm almost positive that he didn't. Why else would he just volunteer to leave like that unless he knew he was uninvited and trespassing? If my friend and I were never chilling in the hallway drinking, would he have just stood there all night? Or would he have broken in or even waited to for her come out and push his way in to rape her whore ass? The situation didn't look right from the beginning and we might have stopped something before it started. If it weren't for my friend, I wouldn't have done shit, especially not for some Asian whore.

Think about it this way. This woman makes a poor decision to let this guy know where she lives. Now he is stalking her. Not only did she put herself in potential danger by making poor decisions drinking and letting some stranger know where she lives. but now she puts other people's lives in danger as well. If he had attacked me? My friend? Or if he would have pushed his way into her apartment and raped her? She would putting the responding officers to the scene in potential danger to. Anyone that ends up helping a bitch Asian whore like herself would be put in potential danger. This was a big guy. Correction; a big drunk angry looking guy. These Asian women only think about themselves with they things they do. They are so selfish and self absorbed that it makes me sick.

I went back inside my friend's apartment and got my knife out of my coat pocket...just in case. He never did come back.....or at least not until I left an hour later....

 

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Hey, let's hate on some Asians!

Jimmy Kimmel recently had a skit on his ABC show that said "kill everyone in China." I found out about it a few weeks back when my girl sent me the link but I couldn't bear to stomach it let alone write about it. It's funny they have a little Asian girl in the video participating in the kill everyone in China rant. I wonder if this little girl has forgotten that she is of Asian descent and that in the eyes of Non Asians, you look Chinese anyways? So go ahead and participate in something that hates on your own people. What a girl she will grow up to be. Fuck her parents for allowing her to take part in this since she is still young and doesn't know any better.

Think of it this way; if this script was changed to kill everyone in Africa, wonder how much different the outcry would have been. It would be another  nationwide broadcasted hate issue and blown out of proportion.. Hate crime, racism, southern poverty law, anti racism organizing, all kinds of reverends, etc. If Don Imus got fired by NBC for calling black women "nappy headed hoes", then Jimmy Kimmel should be fired by ABC for saying to"kill everyone in China."

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k_ITwbtxfiY

More on the video: http://js.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2499555/Jimmy-Kimmel-skit-features-young-boy-saying-We-kill-China.html

Props to the Asian people who stood on line in protest. Of course the protesters were small in number because people don't care about racism towards Asians but these people made an effort to show that we don't think it was funny, and yes, it was racist. Skits like this and movies like Red Dawn are encouraging and sending a message to the disenchanted  and already racist population in America that it's okay to hate and want to kill Asians.

Similar Post: It's okay to Kill/Murder Asians

Anal Sex

 

LWT approved. Nuff said

Had my third anal sex experience recently which ended with a nice creamy anal creampie. It feels great to unload a heavy set of balls inside of a stretched out (by me) virgin ass of your girl.

Go out and get yourself a Astroglide X premium lubricant from your local Walgreens or Duane Reade for about $11 (worth the price) and make sure to lube up your tool good before you slide in her ass for both your sakes and enjoy the ride ;)

Note: Just make sure she's taken a shower and is nice and fresh before you proceed. Tell her note to be alarmed if she ends up taking a shit 6 times after anal sex.

Read my first Anal Experience with the: American girl from Seattle

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Two Notches in One Night Part Two

 

Previous Post: Two Notches in One Night Part One

 

The Tall Asian Girl

It was a Saturday night in early June around 9pm and my place is cleaned, bed made, and condoms put to the side for easy access. I was ready to go. I purposely haven't masturbated for a few days so I had a decent amount of cum built up inside my balls. I am ready to release it for take off tonight, I thought. I'm the captain, my penis is my spaceship, and her vagina is the big black hole in space. (hopefully not too big of course, I like my pussies with a snug). My destination was to pilot my spaceship to and in the big black hole in space, and the mission must be accomplished tonight.

We met up, she was late again. The fuck, I will take that into consideration when I'm beating up her pussy later I thought to myself. This was our second date. The first date was a week ago and was a success. Although I didn't get the notch the first time, I had her back at my place, sprawled out with her top off as I made out with her, kissed her neck, chest, stomach, and giving her upper body foreplay she would never forget. I must have spent an hour on the foreplay, no kidding but I enjoyed it every bit as much as she did. I had her moaning my name, and this was just the first date! It was great.

After our original plan for the date didn't work out I decided to take her to a nice Japanese bar in my neighborhood. The bar is dimly lit, with decent amount of privacy adding to a nice seductive atmosphere. We order a large pitcher of slushy drinks with alcohol and chicken wings. We joked that the slush tasted like a smoothie but little did we know that every refill we were taking were adding to our tipsiness that we weren't even aware of. They had couch seats, which was a perfect opportunity to sit next to her. The whole time I was rubbing her back and shoulders with my hand occasionally sliding down to massage her legs and squeeze her ass. I went as far as sliding my hand down her pants from behind and rubbed her bare ass. She stopped me but weakly as I continued having my way. She giggled....other people may or may not have been watching us. I didn't care.

We stumbled out of the bar surprised that we were tipsy. We walked the night streets back to my place and before you know it, she is sprawled on my bed with her panties off. She whispers to me that I'm moving to fast but her pleas didn't penetrate my pussy mission oriented brain. I took off her panties and the rest of her clothes and inserted my cock slowly into her wet warm pussy. I savored the first sacred moment when you first feel the insides of the pussy of a girl you've been wanted to fuck but was only a thought until you made it happen. Notch captured....and I was only getting started for the night....

I managed to take this picture of her before she noticed but my flash was off. By the time I tried to turn the flash back on she noticed the phone and flipped out. Notice the white cum coming out of her pussy? That wasn't mine ;)

Little did I know what an awesome fuck this girl was and that this was the beginning of  great fucking to come..

The Japanese Girl

After the tall Chinese girl leaves, I text my Japanese girl. (After our first mini date of grabbing a drink things were moving extremely quick thanks to my persistence. I already invited myself to her place for our second official meeting and had her on her own couch with nothing but her panties on, while I explored her body).  This was going to be our third meeting along with a combined 4 hours from our previous two meetings. (We did see each other a few more times in between those times but they were quick half hour coffee dates or a hi and bye before work kind of interaction. However, simple interactions like that moved our connection along faster and we felt like we knew each other longer because of that). I asked if I can come over to spend the night with her. She says yes with a heart shape. I smiled after reading the text, I knew she wanted it as much as I did.

Gaming Tip: Sometimes when I know things are going well with a girl sometimes I get bold and invite myself over to her place. This is a bold mood to forward the seduction for sex to come quicker. If you do get inside her place with this move, sex may or may not happen. If it doesn't, keep it short and leave. I am sure that the next time your at her place, you will get laid because she will feel closer to you because to her you already been to her place before and psychologically it will feel like she knew you longer than it really is. Never be direct, just say something like, "Can I come over to your place now?" Sometimes she will just say yes, sometimes there will be a pause (which means she is thinking or deciding) and she may respond with a yes or sometimes they might even ask why. Just say, " I want to see you for a little bit, to cuddle, bring you coffee, breakfast, or just some food, wine, six pack beer for a drink, etc." Sometimes even use the weather as an excuse as I did with the Japanese girl when I invited myself over to her place for the first time. I said: "can I come over to see you? The weather is bad out and I don't want to go outside." Just be simple and non direct. If she is not ready, she will have some excuse, then just be cool with it and go out with her again on another date before trying again.

I quickly got dressed, threw out the condom and wrapper that was on my floor, waited a few minutes to make sure that the tall Chinese girl had walked far enough away from apartment so that she won't see me get on my bike. I ran downstairs excited to get another piece of pussy for the night. The Japanese girl lived all the way in the city so it was going to be a long ride. This was early June so I was wearing just a t shirt, got on my bike and rode down the night streets. It was about 2am and most of the freeway and streets were clear so I rode fast on my bike. Finally got there about 2:45am and rung her doorbell. She answered the door in a skimpy little top and a short pair of shorts. (No panties). The door closed behind us and I captured my second notch for the night, and my first Japanese Conquest ever. Years and years of fantasizing about Japanese girls was a fantasy no more and let me tell you, the Japanese girl had the tightest pussy ever...

Little did I know that this would be the beginning of 3 months of sex, with plenty of cream-pies, and even sex in an open park....

To be continued?

Two Notches in One Night Part One

 

Prelude:

 

The Tall Asian Girl


It was a Saturday night way back in May of this year and the Knicks were playing their elimination game 6 against the Indian Pacers in the second round of the NBA playoffs. I went out solo to a new hip bar in my neighborhood with big TV screens surrounding the entire bar area. I walked into the bar alone when the game was only a few minutes into the first quarter. The bar only had a few people at that time so I was luckily able to get a seat before it got really crowded, and it did. I dressed up nice in my best Vneck tshirt, a nice Swiss watch, denim jeans, nice shoes, and a new haircut. I have been working out for a month or so, I was looking sharp and a cute Asian bartender sat me down and passed me the drink menu. I order a beer and watched the game. More people poured into the bar and I ordered chicken tenders and another beer during halftime. The cute bartender was paying extra attention to me, making sure to give me enough napkins and check in on me even though the bar was getting crowded. I was the only one sitting alone at the bar but I didn't care. I ate my chicken tenders and drank my beer while watching the game. I liked the attention.

By the third quarter the bar was already packed with rowdy Knicks fan. (This is an Asian bar FYI) The stakes were high and everyone was rooting for the Knicks in the bar. People cheered at every basket the Knicks made, booed when the Pacers had the possession and barked at every referee's call against their beloved Knicks. The atmosphere was awesome and I was having tons of fun.

4th quarter rolled around and it was a close game. The Knicks were trading shots and points back and forth with the Pacers and the leads kept changing hands with every shot. It was freaking exciting and everyone was intense. I was surrounded mostly by guys but to my left I noticed two Asian girls sitting next to me talking. I didn't really pay them any attention as I was focused on the game. Last few minutes the Knicks were down a few points and they needed to make clutch shots if they wanted their season to continue. Everyone was on the edge of their seat, including me.

Shit, they didn't make the shot. Knicks lose. The bar starts clearing out and I just sat there by myself somewhat disappointed that the Knicks lost.  I looked around and everyone was leaving and I finished the rest of my beer. I hear the girls to my left ask for the check  and I finally take a peek at them. There was a cute girl with long hair and a cute girl with hair to her chin only. I decided to talk to the one next to me; (the one with chin length hair).

Me: "I can't believe the Knicks lost." (that was my opener, simple and based on the atmosphere which was the game)

Chin Lengh hair girl:  "Yeah, I know. I normally don't watch basketball but it was a lot of fun and I thought the Knicks was going to win."

Me: (Looking at the cute girl with long hair) "Do you watch basketball?" (with a playfull tone and smile) The CL hair girl didn't look happy that I was paying attention to her friend now.

Gaming Tip: By talking and including her friend into the conversation I am neutruelizing a potential cockblock by her friend if I ignore her. Plus it made my target (CL hair girl) jealous. Both important for picking up.

Cute girl with Long hair: "Yes I watch basketball, I am the one who has to teach her the rules."

I laugh a bit and I then focus back my attention on the CL hair girl. We talk for a few more minutes.

Their check comes and they pay it. The CG with long hair gets up to leave and the the CL hair girl follows.

CL hair girl: "It was nice talking to you. Have a good night."

Me: "Yeah, your pretty cool. How about we grab a drink sometime and talk more."

CL hair girl: "Yea sure."

We switch numbers and they leave first. I ask the cute bartender for my check (she was probably watching me pick up these girls) and I pay and leave.

Number taken. The next day she adds me on a chat app and we begin messaging. We agree to meet for a drink soon.

 

Prelude:

 

The Japanese Girl

It was about 3am on a quiet June weekday night. I happened to be at a friend's apartment in NYC and since I don't stay in the city often I couldn't sleep and was downstairs in front of his apartment just relaxing and enjoying the rare quietness of the night in Manhattan. I go back inside and sit in the lounge chair they have in the lobby of the apartment. Relaxing,  a few minutes later I see an Asian girl walk past. From the window I noticed she was looking at me and somewhat checking me out. I didn't hesitate, I sprung up and ran outside. She was already walking down the street with her back to me and I go:

"Hey."

In a quiet tone but yet loud enough for her to hear. I call out to her again.

Me: "Hey, where are you going. Come back here to talk."

She turns around slightly but continues to walk away. I think to myself, oh well. I didn't expect a random girl to respond to a strange man calling out to her at 3am in the morning to come over. Anyways, she was checking me out first. I had to take the initiative. I sat back down on the lobby chair and started to play around with my phone. About 10 minutes later, I see someone standing by the door. I look up; its the same Asian girl smiling and waving at me! I can't believe she came back! I go outside to talk to her and noticed that she was sipping on a cup of coffee.

Random girl: "Hi."

Me: "Hi, how r u?"

RG: I'm good. Do you live here?

Me: "No, but I'm staying with a friend and I couldn't sleep. You came back!"

RG: "Yes, I am a little drunk so I went to get a cup of coffee and came back to talk to you."

Still surprised that she came back.

Me: "Your not afraid walking around by yourself in the middle of the night?"

RG: "Afraid of what? You?"

I laugh. She has a sense of humor. Good.

Me: "Let me guess where your from......" I studied her facial features. After visiting Korea twice and having an ex Korean girlfriend I determined that she was Korean.

"You are Korean," I said.

RG: "No, I'm Japanese!"

I couldn't believe it! Deep inside I was jumping for joy. I never knew any Japanese girl but yet found myself fantisizing about them with all the Japanese AV porn I watched and jerked off too. I also been intrigued by Japanese girls since Highschool since practically falling in love with the female characters Jill from Resident Evil 3 and Rinoa from Final Fantasy 8. (pathetic I know). But for some reason, I always ended up just getting stuck with Chinese girls and a few Korean girls. Fascinated, curious and attracted to Japanese girls and Japanese culture finally I had a pretty exotic Japanese girl standing in front of me with a big smile. She is about a 9 with really exotic and attractive features and a good sense of fashion. She was the type of girls that other guys will be checking out when you are with her.

Me: "I never knew any Japanese girls before."

RG: "Really? There is so many Japanese in NYC."

Me: "Really? Where are all you hiding?"

She laughs. We talk some more. Turns out she came from Japan only for a few years and although her English was limited we can still can manage a decent conversation. She sips more of her coffee. I decided enough rapport is built and the interest has been established. It was time to ask for her number.

Me: "Hey, what's your number? We should grab a drink sometime. Do you live close by?"

To my surprise she lived literally 2 blocks away. I couldn't believe it. She gives me her number and I closed with a move that I sometimes use, and when I do, ALMOST all the time gives me great results. What's the move? Read below

Gaming Tip: When I randomly approach a girl on the street and talk to her I gauge her level of interest. If the conversation goes well and she laughs at my teasing or jokes and responds to my flirting, after I go for the number and her name I say its nice meeting you. I put out my hand to shake hers and when she puts her hands in mine to shake, I shake her hand and then slowly and smoothly take her hand up to my face and gently kiss the outside of her hand (like the good old fashioned gentlemen do) and then look into her eyes after. This takes balls to do but once you do it, you will reep the benefits my friends. Trust me. This will make your romantic interest known right away and if she agrees to meet you for a date she will be EXPECTING you to make a move on her and kiss her. No more bullshit about how she thought you only wanted to be friends or getting friend zoned. I consider this a more advance move so if you can deliver your flow and get her number smoothly you should try it. But when you do, no mumbling, no stuttering, and no hesitation. Decide in advance if are going to do it and just do it smoothly without thinking. I've also tried this move with the girl from Spain and her and let me tell you, I got a couple months of sex from this move; and sex came quickly.....now this move was going to work for me once again...

She says bye and then walks home. I walk inside wondering if she was prostitute since she was so easy to game and it was late at night.........she texts me nice meeting you yesterday a few hours later and I then knew for sure she wasn't.

 

To be continued....

Few more things to know

1. Sometimes when you ask to much questions you may not like what you hear. Make a decision, either you ask the questions and learn to deal with what you hear or don't ask at all. Reason being, if you have a goal in mind, asking questions can directly affect your ability to accomplish your goal if you hear answers you don't like.

2. Don't ever have expectations for/in people. If you put your faith or expectations in someone you essentially are setting yourself up for disappointment. This applies for anything from work, friendships and especially relationships. While some may argue that this is not always true, its true MOST of the time. For example, you put your faith in your best friend to always be there for you but when the time comes and they are not there. Or perhaps you put expectations in a woman and the relationship hoping to have something special but one day for no reason she dumps or changes her feelings towards you without reason. You will save yourself a lot of disappointment if you had low or NO expectations to begin with.

3. Getting older is not always a bad thing. While I wish I can still say I am in my early or mid twenties (because it sounds so nice and young) getting older definitely has its perks. For one, I am more at peace with myself no longer trying to prove something all the time. Emotionally, I am happier more confident and learn how to manage my feelings better. I appreciate and love myself and with that I am a naturally a happier person. Getting older means more wisdom and experience and you finally reach an age where you know yourself and develop yourself as a the "real you."

4. Every man should work out. No exceptions. Working out does magic for your body, looks, health, confidence, your overall happiness and how you feel and value yourself.  Working out is a form of stress management. Whether it was a bad day or you're feeling a burning tension inside, working out releases that tension physically through the form of lifting weights, cardio, situps, etc. You will walk out feeling great after. Trust me on this one.

5. Read one hour on day or at least a few hours a week. Reading improves your knowledge, intelligence and can helps with self improvement. I currently read as much as I can, anything from a travel adventure/sex blog, how to sex book, men's fitness and health mags, to business articles. It expands your horizons, educates you, offers tips on life, business, dating and sex, and gives you upbeat topics to talk about in conversations.

6. Ever had that feeling where you feel like your efforts and kind deeds go unnoticed or unappreciated and your being taken for granted? Its not a good feeling. With that being said, appreciate people when they do things for you. Sometimes a warm smile and a kind show of appreciation can make a whole lot of difference.

7. Date inter-racially. I am fed up with Asian men only desiring and pursuing Asian women further putting these slant eye cunts on a pedestal. Asian American or Asian women for the most part believe they are cut from a better slice of the pie, looking down on Asian men while harboring self prejudice in themselves and their race. There are plenty of non Asian women out there that are open minded and sweet with a lot to offer. Stop believing the stereotype that no White women want Asian men. That's just something that is embedded in our culture to oppress Asian men. Get your shit together and be a man with something to offer. Starting today, hit on at least one Non Asian woman a week, then as you get more comfortable, raise the number to 2 or 3 or more a week. Eventually one Non Asian woman would bite if you use decent game and take care of your appearance.

8. It's a fact that if you have sex with a woman and want to continue seeing her consistently, you must call/text her the next day so she would know your into her for more than just sex. However, one thing I learned from gaming is even if you don't penetrate her but have success in the form of anything physical, you still should call or text her the next day. For instance, if you have a heavy make out session, or squeeze her tits and grab her ass multiple times, or go as far as finger her or get her naked and fool around, oral, anything short of penetration then you should call her. If you don't, you run a risk of not getting a second date or seeing her again, or even worse she doesn't even respond to your texts/calls and just ignore you. I had this happen to me a few times already with one girl telling me that it was because I didn't call her the next day so she came to the conclusion that I was only into her for the sex. That was kind of true with that girl but not for a Korean American girl I recently dated and had some physical success with grabbing ass and tits and heavy make outs on our first date. Shame, because it had potential to be a nice notch.

Note: This doesn't apply for the standard kiss on the lips or the gentleman few kisses at her front door after you drop her off from your date. Those you can wait the standard 2 or 3 days before contacting her. That's if you only want to see her again of course :)

9. Don't be to over apologetic. Ever have someone say excuse me to you because you may happen to be standing or blocking the way unintentionally and the first word that comes out of your mouth is "sorry" before you move? We all have, including me. When you come to think about it, why are you apologizing for in the first place? Your not placed purposely in his way so why do you need apologize for your existence in a public area. He doesn't own the public area and neither do you so don't apologize and just move out of the way. Apologizing for no reason makes you look weak, passive and beta. The worst part is subconsciously it will affect your behavior and the way you view yourself. You will start apologizing for asking questions, like "sorry to bother you, but I wanted to ask you, etc. This one might be a tough one to understand, but just think of it this way; are strong men constantly apologizing to people when they haven't done anything wrong? Do black guys apologize to you when you say excuse me? Asian men are viewed as weak already, don't make it worse by apologizing for everything.

10. Pacific Rim is a racist and discriminating movie. As in typical Hollywood fashion, the movie discriminates against Asian men. For those of you who've seen the movie, did you notice that although the movie takes place in Hong Kong (an Asian country and city) NOT one single Asian male actor even has a line or a part in saving his own people in a city being ransacked by Godzilla like creatures. The only scenes where there were Asian men were the scene where Charlie Hunnam was kicking three Asian guys asses in a stick fight and the scene where the first the robot being controlled by the Asian men pilots were the first ones killed without putting up a fight. Actually they did have a line but it wasn't even in fucking English. So the movie really involves around White and Black men saving yellow asses in Hong Kong with the slant civilians helpless and running for their lives. The only Asian actor is an Asian woman who has an obvious attraction to the white protagonist (Charlie Hunnam) secretly watching him change while getting excited and has a silent but obvious attraction for him. The movie goes on to show a successful White man/Asian woman team up and corny somewhat romance to save the Hong Kong while there is not a single Asian man to be found anywhere. This must have been an ego trip movie for all those Asian woman, White men couples that went to watch the movie thinking they can relate to the movie portraying that WM/AW are some kind superior union that also applies in real life. More smacks in the face for Asian men were roles with Chinese characters and Chinese names were being played by Ron Perlman (white) and another Hispanic actor. Even the Black leader in the movie had more lines in Japanese then Asian men even had in English. (which were none). For those of you who hadn't watched it; Do so only if you can handle the discrimination against Asian men in that movie. Personally, I think Asian men should boycott the movie and be vocal about the discrimination towards Asian men.

Instead of constantly pointing out discrimination by Hollywood towards Asian men lets also recognize the ones that show love for our brethren.

Glen and Maggie from the Walking Dead. They had the first AM/WW sex scene that I have ever seen on the American screen.

Sung Kang in his role as Han with his on screen Fast and Furious girlfriend. As per wikipedia Sung Kang stated as an American actor, one of his biggest dislikes about Hollywood are the stereotypes that East Asian actors face when being cast in a role. Kudos to Sung Kang who takes roles that portray Asian men in a positive light.

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