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Monday, September 2, 2013

Two Notches in One Night Part One

 

Prelude:

 

The Tall Asian Girl


It was a Saturday night way back in May of this year and the Knicks were playing their elimination game 6 against the Indian Pacers in the second round of the NBA playoffs. I went out solo to a new hip bar in my neighborhood with big TV screens surrounding the entire bar area. I walked into the bar alone when the game was only a few minutes into the first quarter. The bar only had a few people at that time so I was luckily able to get a seat before it got really crowded, and it did. I dressed up nice in my best Vneck tshirt, a nice Swiss watch, denim jeans, nice shoes, and a new haircut. I have been working out for a month or so, I was looking sharp and a cute Asian bartender sat me down and passed me the drink menu. I order a beer and watched the game. More people poured into the bar and I ordered chicken tenders and another beer during halftime. The cute bartender was paying extra attention to me, making sure to give me enough napkins and check in on me even though the bar was getting crowded. I was the only one sitting alone at the bar but I didn't care. I ate my chicken tenders and drank my beer while watching the game. I liked the attention.

By the third quarter the bar was already packed with rowdy Knicks fan. (This is an Asian bar FYI) The stakes were high and everyone was rooting for the Knicks in the bar. People cheered at every basket the Knicks made, booed when the Pacers had the possession and barked at every referee's call against their beloved Knicks. The atmosphere was awesome and I was having tons of fun.

4th quarter rolled around and it was a close game. The Knicks were trading shots and points back and forth with the Pacers and the leads kept changing hands with every shot. It was freaking exciting and everyone was intense. I was surrounded mostly by guys but to my left I noticed two Asian girls sitting next to me talking. I didn't really pay them any attention as I was focused on the game. Last few minutes the Knicks were down a few points and they needed to make clutch shots if they wanted their season to continue. Everyone was on the edge of their seat, including me.

Shit, they didn't make the shot. Knicks lose. The bar starts clearing out and I just sat there by myself somewhat disappointed that the Knicks lost.  I looked around and everyone was leaving and I finished the rest of my beer. I hear the girls to my left ask for the check  and I finally take a peek at them. There was a cute girl with long hair and a cute girl with hair to her chin only. I decided to talk to the one next to me; (the one with chin length hair).

Me: "I can't believe the Knicks lost." (that was my opener, simple and based on the atmosphere which was the game)

Chin Lengh hair girl:  "Yeah, I know. I normally don't watch basketball but it was a lot of fun and I thought the Knicks was going to win."

Me: (Looking at the cute girl with long hair) "Do you watch basketball?" (with a playfull tone and smile) The CL hair girl didn't look happy that I was paying attention to her friend now.

Gaming Tip: By talking and including her friend into the conversation I am neutruelizing a potential cockblock by her friend if I ignore her. Plus it made my target (CL hair girl) jealous. Both important for picking up.

Cute girl with Long hair: "Yes I watch basketball, I am the one who has to teach her the rules."

I laugh a bit and I then focus back my attention on the CL hair girl. We talk for a few more minutes.

Their check comes and they pay it. The CG with long hair gets up to leave and the the CL hair girl follows.

CL hair girl: "It was nice talking to you. Have a good night."

Me: "Yeah, your pretty cool. How about we grab a drink sometime and talk more."

CL hair girl: "Yea sure."

We switch numbers and they leave first. I ask the cute bartender for my check (she was probably watching me pick up these girls) and I pay and leave.

Number taken. The next day she adds me on a chat app and we begin messaging. We agree to meet for a drink soon.

 

Prelude:

 

The Japanese Girl

It was about 3am on a quiet June weekday night. I happened to be at a friend's apartment in NYC and since I don't stay in the city often I couldn't sleep and was downstairs in front of his apartment just relaxing and enjoying the rare quietness of the night in Manhattan. I go back inside and sit in the lounge chair they have in the lobby of the apartment. Relaxing,  a few minutes later I see an Asian girl walk past. From the window I noticed she was looking at me and somewhat checking me out. I didn't hesitate, I sprung up and ran outside. She was already walking down the street with her back to me and I go:

"Hey."

In a quiet tone but yet loud enough for her to hear. I call out to her again.

Me: "Hey, where are you going. Come back here to talk."

She turns around slightly but continues to walk away. I think to myself, oh well. I didn't expect a random girl to respond to a strange man calling out to her at 3am in the morning to come over. Anyways, she was checking me out first. I had to take the initiative. I sat back down on the lobby chair and started to play around with my phone. About 10 minutes later, I see someone standing by the door. I look up; its the same Asian girl smiling and waving at me! I can't believe she came back! I go outside to talk to her and noticed that she was sipping on a cup of coffee.

Random girl: "Hi."

Me: "Hi, how r u?"

RG: I'm good. Do you live here?

Me: "No, but I'm staying with a friend and I couldn't sleep. You came back!"

RG: "Yes, I am a little drunk so I went to get a cup of coffee and came back to talk to you."

Still surprised that she came back.

Me: "Your not afraid walking around by yourself in the middle of the night?"

RG: "Afraid of what? You?"

I laugh. She has a sense of humor. Good.

Me: "Let me guess where your from......" I studied her facial features. After visiting Korea twice and having an ex Korean girlfriend I determined that she was Korean.

"You are Korean," I said.

RG: "No, I'm Japanese!"

I couldn't believe it! Deep inside I was jumping for joy. I never knew any Japanese girl but yet found myself fantisizing about them with all the Japanese AV porn I watched and jerked off too. I also been intrigued by Japanese girls since Highschool since practically falling in love with the female characters Jill from Resident Evil 3 and Rinoa from Final Fantasy 8. (pathetic I know). But for some reason, I always ended up just getting stuck with Chinese girls and a few Korean girls. Fascinated, curious and attracted to Japanese girls and Japanese culture finally I had a pretty exotic Japanese girl standing in front of me with a big smile. She is about a 9 with really exotic and attractive features and a good sense of fashion. She was the type of girls that other guys will be checking out when you are with her.

Me: "I never knew any Japanese girls before."

RG: "Really? There is so many Japanese in NYC."

Me: "Really? Where are all you hiding?"

She laughs. We talk some more. Turns out she came from Japan only for a few years and although her English was limited we can still can manage a decent conversation. She sips more of her coffee. I decided enough rapport is built and the interest has been established. It was time to ask for her number.

Me: "Hey, what's your number? We should grab a drink sometime. Do you live close by?"

To my surprise she lived literally 2 blocks away. I couldn't believe it. She gives me her number and I closed with a move that I sometimes use, and when I do, ALMOST all the time gives me great results. What's the move? Read below

Gaming Tip: When I randomly approach a girl on the street and talk to her I gauge her level of interest. If the conversation goes well and she laughs at my teasing or jokes and responds to my flirting, after I go for the number and her name I say its nice meeting you. I put out my hand to shake hers and when she puts her hands in mine to shake, I shake her hand and then slowly and smoothly take her hand up to my face and gently kiss the outside of her hand (like the good old fashioned gentlemen do) and then look into her eyes after. This takes balls to do but once you do it, you will reep the benefits my friends. Trust me. This will make your romantic interest known right away and if she agrees to meet you for a date she will be EXPECTING you to make a move on her and kiss her. No more bullshit about how she thought you only wanted to be friends or getting friend zoned. I consider this a more advance move so if you can deliver your flow and get her number smoothly you should try it. But when you do, no mumbling, no stuttering, and no hesitation. Decide in advance if are going to do it and just do it smoothly without thinking. I've also tried this move with the girl from Spain and her and let me tell you, I got a couple months of sex from this move; and sex came quickly.....now this move was going to work for me once again...

She says bye and then walks home. I walk inside wondering if she was prostitute since she was so easy to game and it was late at night.........she texts me nice meeting you yesterday a few hours later and I then knew for sure she wasn't.

 

To be continued....

3 comments:

  1. I like the hand kissing method. I'd def try it the next time I got a chance to shake a girl's hand. I always felt it's awkward to shake hands with girl who I was introduced to or get aquainted with (aka girl I chatted up) because it felt like I was voluntarily friendzoning myself! Great tip.

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  2. Grreat blog I enjoyed reading

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