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Tuesday, August 6, 2013

Few more things to know

1. Sometimes when you ask to much questions you may not like what you hear. Make a decision, either you ask the questions and learn to deal with what you hear or don't ask at all. Reason being, if you have a goal in mind, asking questions can directly affect your ability to accomplish your goal if you hear answers you don't like.

2. Don't ever have expectations for/in people. If you put your faith or expectations in someone you essentially are setting yourself up for disappointment. This applies for anything from work, friendships and especially relationships. While some may argue that this is not always true, its true MOST of the time. For example, you put your faith in your best friend to always be there for you but when the time comes and they are not there. Or perhaps you put expectations in a woman and the relationship hoping to have something special but one day for no reason she dumps or changes her feelings towards you without reason. You will save yourself a lot of disappointment if you had low or NO expectations to begin with.

3. Getting older is not always a bad thing. While I wish I can still say I am in my early or mid twenties (because it sounds so nice and young) getting older definitely has its perks. For one, I am more at peace with myself no longer trying to prove something all the time. Emotionally, I am happier more confident and learn how to manage my feelings better. I appreciate and love myself and with that I am a naturally a happier person. Getting older means more wisdom and experience and you finally reach an age where you know yourself and develop yourself as a the "real you."

4. Every man should work out. No exceptions. Working out does magic for your body, looks, health, confidence, your overall happiness and how you feel and value yourself.  Working out is a form of stress management. Whether it was a bad day or you're feeling a burning tension inside, working out releases that tension physically through the form of lifting weights, cardio, situps, etc. You will walk out feeling great after. Trust me on this one.

5. Read one hour on day or at least a few hours a week. Reading improves your knowledge, intelligence and can helps with self improvement. I currently read as much as I can, anything from a travel adventure/sex blog, how to sex book, men's fitness and health mags, to business articles. It expands your horizons, educates you, offers tips on life, business, dating and sex, and gives you upbeat topics to talk about in conversations.

6. Ever had that feeling where you feel like your efforts and kind deeds go unnoticed or unappreciated and your being taken for granted? Its not a good feeling. With that being said, appreciate people when they do things for you. Sometimes a warm smile and a kind show of appreciation can make a whole lot of difference.

7. Date inter-racially. I am fed up with Asian men only desiring and pursuing Asian women further putting these slant eye cunts on a pedestal. Asian American or Asian women for the most part believe they are cut from a better slice of the pie, looking down on Asian men while harboring self prejudice in themselves and their race. There are plenty of non Asian women out there that are open minded and sweet with a lot to offer. Stop believing the stereotype that no White women want Asian men. That's just something that is embedded in our culture to oppress Asian men. Get your shit together and be a man with something to offer. Starting today, hit on at least one Non Asian woman a week, then as you get more comfortable, raise the number to 2 or 3 or more a week. Eventually one Non Asian woman would bite if you use decent game and take care of your appearance.

8. It's a fact that if you have sex with a woman and want to continue seeing her consistently, you must call/text her the next day so she would know your into her for more than just sex. However, one thing I learned from gaming is even if you don't penetrate her but have success in the form of anything physical, you still should call or text her the next day. For instance, if you have a heavy make out session, or squeeze her tits and grab her ass multiple times, or go as far as finger her or get her naked and fool around, oral, anything short of penetration then you should call her. If you don't, you run a risk of not getting a second date or seeing her again, or even worse she doesn't even respond to your texts/calls and just ignore you. I had this happen to me a few times already with one girl telling me that it was because I didn't call her the next day so she came to the conclusion that I was only into her for the sex. That was kind of true with that girl but not for a Korean American girl I recently dated and had some physical success with grabbing ass and tits and heavy make outs on our first date. Shame, because it had potential to be a nice notch.

Note: This doesn't apply for the standard kiss on the lips or the gentleman few kisses at her front door after you drop her off from your date. Those you can wait the standard 2 or 3 days before contacting her. That's if you only want to see her again of course :)

9. Don't be to over apologetic. Ever have someone say excuse me to you because you may happen to be standing or blocking the way unintentionally and the first word that comes out of your mouth is "sorry" before you move? We all have, including me. When you come to think about it, why are you apologizing for in the first place? Your not placed purposely in his way so why do you need apologize for your existence in a public area. He doesn't own the public area and neither do you so don't apologize and just move out of the way. Apologizing for no reason makes you look weak, passive and beta. The worst part is subconsciously it will affect your behavior and the way you view yourself. You will start apologizing for asking questions, like "sorry to bother you, but I wanted to ask you, etc. This one might be a tough one to understand, but just think of it this way; are strong men constantly apologizing to people when they haven't done anything wrong? Do black guys apologize to you when you say excuse me? Asian men are viewed as weak already, don't make it worse by apologizing for everything.

10. Pacific Rim is a racist and discriminating movie. As in typical Hollywood fashion, the movie discriminates against Asian men. For those of you who've seen the movie, did you notice that although the movie takes place in Hong Kong (an Asian country and city) NOT one single Asian male actor even has a line or a part in saving his own people in a city being ransacked by Godzilla like creatures. The only scenes where there were Asian men were the scene where Charlie Hunnam was kicking three Asian guys asses in a stick fight and the scene where the first the robot being controlled by the Asian men pilots were the first ones killed without putting up a fight. Actually they did have a line but it wasn't even in fucking English. So the movie really involves around White and Black men saving yellow asses in Hong Kong with the slant civilians helpless and running for their lives. The only Asian actor is an Asian woman who has an obvious attraction to the white protagonist (Charlie Hunnam) secretly watching him change while getting excited and has a silent but obvious attraction for him. The movie goes on to show a successful White man/Asian woman team up and corny somewhat romance to save the Hong Kong while there is not a single Asian man to be found anywhere. This must have been an ego trip movie for all those Asian woman, White men couples that went to watch the movie thinking they can relate to the movie portraying that WM/AW are some kind superior union that also applies in real life. More smacks in the face for Asian men were roles with Chinese characters and Chinese names were being played by Ron Perlman (white) and another Hispanic actor. Even the Black leader in the movie had more lines in Japanese then Asian men even had in English. (which were none). For those of you who hadn't watched it; Do so only if you can handle the discrimination against Asian men in that movie. Personally, I think Asian men should boycott the movie and be vocal about the discrimination towards Asian men.

Instead of constantly pointing out discrimination by Hollywood towards Asian men lets also recognize the ones that show love for our brethren.




Glen and Maggie from the Walking Dead. They had the first AM/WW sex scene that I have ever seen on the American screen.


Sung Kang in his role as Han with his on screen Fast and Furious girlfriend. As per wikipedia Sung Kang stated as an American actor, one of his biggest dislikes about Hollywood are the stereotypes that East Asian actors face when being cast in a role. Kudos to Sung Kang who takes roles that portray Asian men in a positive light.



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Friday, July 26, 2013

I received my first Donation

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Friday, May 24, 2013

I got my first hate mail

Hater's email to me:

"Fuck off gook."

Okay, in the eyes of this racist, I'm an Asian man so to him I am a gook. How much are you willing to bet that this gook hater who feels the need to call Asian men gooks actually like Asian women? I'm willing to bet a whole lot. If he ever does get caught calling an Asian man a gook, and will have to justify his racism, this is what he will say:

"I want to apologize for my remark and to the Asian community. I am a grown man and I should be responsible for my actions and words. I just want you all to know that I am not a racist because my wife is Asian."

Read next: Non Asian men can't stand to see Asian men prevail

Friday, May 17, 2013

10 Different types of Asian women

1. The Insecure Asian woman - This one wishes that she had been born a different race. She is so insecure of being Asian, seen, labeled or referred to as one that she does everything in her power to distant herself from being Asian. She purposely distant herself from being associated with Asians by dating anyone that is NOT ASIAN just so she thinks that she won't be seen or classified as another Asian person or couple. She is so insecure of her own ethnicity that she is desperately trying to be accepted amongst other non Asians especially in the eyes of White and even Black people. This type has disqualified Asian men as sexual partners not because we are unworthy or non sexual, but because of her own insecurity and bitterness of being Asian that she takes it out on Asian men by not only refusing to date us but also put us down through comparison with the White man or talking about how useless, or small our dicks our etc in the presence of non Asian men as to justify in her mind why she doesn't date Asian men. This type has the infamous line "I don't date Asian guys." (which really means, although I'm Asian, so in other words I hate being Asian so much that when I see an Asian guy it reminds me of myself and I hate myself for being Asian).


How to spot this type of Asian woman:

  • Ones that dyes their hair blond and tries to change their appearance to look more White or those that dress and act Black. They try to change their Asian appearances by pretending to act and look like something they are not.

  • Other obvious signs are for example, two Asian men are sitting on one end of the train. They don't know each other. An Asian women comes in at the next stop and sits down across from them. She sees that its all Asians on one side and she quickly gets up and moves to the other side of the train (even though its a lot more crowded) and squeezes in next to an elderly Black man. Trust me, I've seen this happen with my own eyes and you can see it in her eyes of her own insecurity and shame of who and what she is, Asian.

  • When you look at one and they meet your stare they instantly roll their eyes and look away as in "I'm too good for you and I don't like Asian men"

  • Even women of other races recognize and address this type of Asian woman self hate in this article

  • A perfect real life example. An Asian woman admits that she doesn't date Asian men because she is a racist of her own!


http://www.xojane.com/it-happened-to-me/asian-woman-dating-asian-men-jenny-an

An Article that discusses Asian women purposely seeking Non Asian men http://goldsea.com/Air/Issues/Divide/divide_21108.html

2. The Asian woman with Daddy issues - I don't know if their dads stuck his finger in  her butt as an adolescent but this type of Asian woman hates their Dad and in turn thinks all Asian men in the world are like her Dad and becomes bitter, spiteful, and hateful of Asian men. Perhaps, her Dad was truly a loser, possibly abusing her Mom and the kids, the alcoholic or gambling type, or the type that abandons the family. Whatever the reason, this kind of Asian woman failed to understand that just because your Dad was that kind of Asian man doesn't mean that ALL Asian men including the American born Generation with Western thinking are like that. It's like saying that all Black men are criminals, drug dealers or jobless bums. This kind of Asian woman not only disqualifies Asian men as lovers but goes on a personal jihad to discriminate, attack us verbally through press, media, writings or bad mouth and degrade Asian men further contributing to the negative stereotypes that have been put on Asian men in the western world.

Perfect examples of this type: Amy Tan, author of the Joy Luck Club. That whole book is defamation, discriminating, and promoting negative untruthful stereotype of Asian men. I don't know how this book never made it on the Southern Poverty Law's List for its racist material.  Oh yeah right, when racism is direct at Asian men, no one cares.

3. The Aftermarket Trash Asian Woman - This type of Asian woman gets pumped and dumped by White men or Non Asian men with yellow fever for most of her youth until the biological clock is ticking and she still finds herself single and no longer desired by Men of other races. When she is old, ugly, and undesired by Non Asian men she resorts to settling for Asian men who are desperate and dumb enough to wed her and essentially become her provider after she becomes after market trash and been pumped and dumped countless number of times by Non Asian men. This type of Asian women will always have excuses on why she never dated Asian men with "Asian men never hit on me before for some reason" as being their most famous line. Bitch, did you ever wonder it was perhaps you never gave them the time of day until your face got wrinkles and pussy got stretched out? 

This Asian woman said she was sick of white guys using for her sex and not calling her after so she decided to date Asian men. If an Asian man decides to use her for anything other than a pump and dump then he essentially taking a aftermarket trash Asian woman. He deserves better, and he should know it

Other types of this Asian woman:

4. The Hypocrite Asian Woman - She argues that Asian men are bitter and whiners when Asian women date White or other Non Asian men. She thinks its a free country and they have a right to choose their own destiny and date/fuck whoever they want. You know what? Sadly I will have to agree with them. No one can tell another who they should or could date. It's up to that individual to make their own choice. However, when Asian women see Asian men dating Non Asian women they instantly get bitter and jealous. They absolutely show no class and tend to stare impolitely, whisper comments in their Asian female friends or White boyfriends ear and downright glare, stare or try to compete with the Asian man's non Asian girlfriend. They are hypocrites, they think its alright for them to have interracial dating but when Asian men get with White or Non Asian women they can't stop staring or glaring.

My personal experiences:

  • When I was dating the girl from Turkmenistan, I took her to a Shanghai Dumpling restaurant in NYC. This is a very popular spot so you can imagine it gets extremely crowded. We ended up sharing a table with 2 to 3 unknown groups. One of the group and a nasty, bitter Asian woman that can't looking at us like we were a side attraction of a circus freak show. My girlfriend at the time was eating and she just stared and her profusely making my girl so uncomfortable that she looked at the table to eat. The bitter, jealous, and racist look in this Asian girl's eyes said everything, she didn't even have to open her mouth to say it. I remember noticing this so I looked right at her and she saw me looking at her so she quickly looked away. I was 3 years younger at the time and not quite as confident or assertive as I am now but if that were to happen today, I will take my Non Asian girl and kiss her right in front of that bitter and jealous Asian girl. Why not? Asian women with non Asian men are always doing that to us, on the subway, in our restaurants, in our communities. Have to fight fire with fire and not sit around feeling sorry and bitter for ourselves no longer.

  • Second experience was when I took the American girl from Seattle to a late night snack in Chinatown. The Chinese waitress was so nasty with us that she caused my Seattle girl to say "You think she is giving us this poor treatment because we are a AM/WF couple? Quite possibly so. I'm willing to bet on it.

  • I was on a date with a Italian girl and I took her to a noodle shop. The Chinese girl working there was immediately nasty with us, giving us a dirty look while taking our order that caused my girl to say, "what's her problem?" The answer to that was obvious, which we both already knew

  • If any other Asian men have these similar experiences with bitter Asian women when you were with a Non Asian girl please leave a comment and share your experience. It doesn't only have to be bitter Asian women but bitter Non Asian men that don't like to see an Asian man with their women as well.

5. The FOB Asian woman - Comes to America and gets corrupted by Western thinking. She has to explain to White and Black men as in why she is attracted to Asian men (her own men) because these color folks can't seem to believe that Asian men can still be desired by their own women. This type of Asian woman will either get corrupted with Western thinking such as white is right or believe the negative stereotypes about her own Asian men. She will have more options and now she will fuck all types of men not limiting to Black and even middle eastern men and justifying it by saying "she is experimenting." I can't think of a race of women besides White women that need to experiment but even so, the majority of White women prefer to be with their own kind. Eventually after she has fucked anything with a penis she is ready to settle down with an Asian man (who will willingly accept to be her provider and working himself to death while she doesn't do anything for him in return except get the leftover pussy that has been ravaged by all types of savages). Sometimes the FOB Asian woman will marry a White man to become more Americanized and eventually look down on her own people even though she wasn't even born here to start with. Her half breed kids won't know about being Asian, wont' feel proud being Asian, and even become embarrass to admit that they are Asian. 

My experience: I was in a bakery somewhere in an Asian community in NYC and a FOB Chinese woman was with a White man and she proceeded to curse, yell, degrade and demand things like she was some sort of royalty. It was obvious that she was talking down on the bakery employees and trying to elevate herself because in her head she thought she was better and more "American" because she was with a White man. I was sitting there with a friend and couldn't take anymore of it so I got up and told her if she wasn't happy then "get the fuck out." She proceeded to curse me out in her broken English and I was seconds away from slapping her right in the face and fucking him up if he got in the way. He was smart and dragged her out of there. The Bakery employees just shook their hands and said "crazy."

I recently hit on this Fob Asian woman you see in the picture above. She told me that she is from Seoul, S. Korea and moved here in the states for just over a year. Since then she has been dating Black, white, Black and white mix and anything but Asian. She explains, "it's the more American thing to do."

6. The Asian woman who thinks she has Asian Pride - She claims she is full of Asian pride and is proud to be Asian but yet she only dates Non Asian men. This type of  Asian woman will be so proud of being Asian that when there are Asian holidays like Chinese New Year, or a Japanese manga convention she feels the need to parade around her White, black, Hispanic or even Indian boyfriend around the events and make us Asian guys look pathetic and shamed because we can't keep our own women. There are so much of these types that they even outnumber Asian couples. Here in NYC, the only Asian couples you see are the immigrant ones, and when you do see an American born Asian couple its like a rare occurrence.

  • This type of Asian woman feels the need to take her Non Asian boyfriend to try out her culture's food. For instance a Korean woman takes her White boyfriend to Korea town to try Korean food. She parades and hold his hand like she is above everyone else because she is with a White man. This type of Asian women always pays for the food and drinks at these restaurants because it was "her offer."  Quite sad, because Asian women will never pay for an Asian man EVER, and that is if she is willing to date one.

  • These Asian women tend to parade their NON ASIAN man around Asian culture events, festivals, neighborhoods, restaurants thinking they are above everyone else. The ironic part is, all this culture that she thinks she so proud of that she feels the need to introduce or show her Non Asian man were indeed created by Asian men, NOT Asian women. Asian women are so proud of the culture Asian men created and she feels the need to share it with other races but yet hates on her own men. Essentially this is no different then a White man saying he hates Asian people but he wants an Asian girlfriend. (Trust me, there are a lot of those out there).


7. The Asian woman that prefers Asian men - I'm sorry to say, but I have seen, met and knew very few of these types of Asian women. This refers to the Asian American women (not counting for the FOB population).  Here in NYC I see about one Asian American couple to every 7 or 8, WM/AF or NAM/AF. How sad is that? The Asian woman that prefers Asian men fall into 3 different categories.

  • The first and the LEAST in numbers is the attractive Asian female that is successful and independent and is very western and American minded but prefers Asian men of her caliber.

  • Second is the dorky, chubby, or ugly Asian female that prefers Asian men of higher/same quality

  • Third are the Asian women in the little Asian clicks where everyone is a carbon copy of themselves. (ex: Wearing the same North face jackets, Abercombie and Fitch, American Eagle, etc. Talk the same way, using the same slang, everyone knows everyone). They can either be college clicks, nerdy clicks, or the gangsta wannabe bad boy/bad girl clicks. These types of Asian women barely open up or even get to know anyone out of their own clicks or social circles.

8. Sleeping with the enemy Asian woman - This one is literally. I'm not talking about going out with different races or neglecting Asian men, I literally mean sleeping with the enemy. When Japan went to war with the USA back in WWII, many Japanese brides open more than just their arms to the American GI's but their legs as well. Many hooked up with GI's and even went back home to the USA with the American soldiers as their brides. While their Japanese men are in the service fighting and dying to defend their country and its people, this type of Asian woman is servicing the enemy's cock. Same goes for the Vietnam war, while countless Vietnamese are laying dead, their women are fucking, wedding and breeding with the enemy. While I am not taking any sides in the war itself, I think its extremely low that these Asian women can sleep with the very same men that kill their countrymen, husbands, brothers, sons, cousins, friends, etc. Where is the loyalty for the men, their country and their people?
http://www.worthington.org/archives/49/Japanese%20War%20Brides%20Talk%20final.pdf

9. Asian women with smelly vaginas - Very disgusting. I've been with a few who can't seem to notice that their vaginas STINK. My biker friend has also confirmed this with me telling me that a few of his Asian conquests stunk below the belt. It smells like cabbage, rotten eggs, 3 day old garbage or a bag of sweaty gym sucks marinating in the corner. Bitch, learn to take a bar of soap and scrub down there.

Ways to spot an Asian woman that has a smelly vagina.

Start first with the way they dress. Do they take care of their appearance and look like they took the time to look attractive and presentable? If they do chances are they took the time to smell nice too. Take a look at their personal hygiene. Does their hair appeared washed? Clothes look clean? Leg's and armpits shaved? Toenails and fingernails trimmed and cleaned? If no, be warned and STAY AWARE. If they don't take the time to practice good hygiene chances are they don't clean down there. They will have a smelly Asian vagina.

What happens if you find out that an Asian woman has a smelly vagina only after when you are already having sex?

If there is a point where you looked for all the red flags that I mentioned above and still find out that an Asian woman has a smelly vagina only after you are already fucking, I suggest you stick your cock in, soak up the smelly cunt juice, pull it back out and force her to suck on it. That's what I did

10. The Gold-digger/Freeloader Asian woman

Every race of women has their share of gold diggers. There is no doubt that Asian women are close to the top of that list if not on top already. Asian women are extremely materialistic, they tend to look at things like finances, career and the type of car a man drives to consider him as a sexual partner. When it comes to selecting Asian men as mates, their standards are even higher. A poor white or black man will have it easier since supposedly an Asian women would view them as quote on quote "American" and it will be an upgrade for her in terms of social status but with Asian men we need to have the finances, the looks, the social circle, the car, the ability to fix her broken laptop, how to plump a toilet or fix the light (even if we never had any electrical knowledge or hands on in our lives) the ability to pay for all shopping, slit our wrists to give her blood if she needs it, etc etc.

My experiences:

I went out with plenty of Asian women had never once had one attempted to genuinely pay for anything. I never even met an Asian woman that was willing to do pay at least 20% while dating me.

In this return of kings post, it shows that not only Asian American women are becoming more and more about the dollars but now in Asian countries like China, Korea, and Japan they look only for men with money. If you Asian men thought you had it bad here, our Asian brethren in Asia have it bad too.

http://www.returnofkings.com/9387/when-east-meets-west

Solution: Branch out. STOP DATING ONLY ASIAN WOMEN. Date Non Asian women, start talking, pursuing, and actively desire a Non Asian woman. Make it on your list of things to do and fuck

All Asian woman will fall into one of these categories. Some might be 100% spot on in one category while some others might be a bit of each combined. I've been around too many Asian women to be told otherwise and I know, heard and even have Asian women in my own family along with other people families that are real life examples and the reasons why I created some of these categories. So if there is any Asian women reading this I have a Question. What Asian woman are you?

Saturday, May 4, 2013

The Finnish girl that got away

Lately I've been only dating White American and European women. This would be something to brag about but I'm sorry to say I haven't been able to finish off (in other words, stick my cock into their vaginas)  any of them thus far. I have a few girls and a few stories to tell but let's me start with the Finish girl.

I returned to couchsurfers under the notion of wanting to host and share cultures but my true intentions was wanting to actually share sex fluids instead with random traveling girls. I do what I normally do which is message a bunch of random girls by copy and pasting the same message and only changing the name of each of the girls I message in the subject line. The only thing was this time I was specifically targeting only white girls and avoiding all other ethnicity including Asian. Racist? Perhaps, but a man should know what he wants and I knew I wanted white tail.

Gaming tip: How to find white girls that like or might be interested in Asian men on couchsurfers? The answer is quite simple.

*Note: the Finnish girl had a bit from each category. On her profile, she traveled and stayed in China for a month, had a picture of her posing by a bunch of Chinese scholar statues and an Asian guy who was her former host left a review.


I messaged the Finnish girl offering to show her around the city. (I don't offer a bed at my place as one reason being just in case I don't get along with her, I don't have to put up with her in my home. I normally meet them beforehand either for lunch or to show them around before I make a decision and offer a couch after). She accepted my offer and we meet on a Saturday afternoon in the city. I was rocking my leather biker jacket, hellfire jeans and black boots and the moment she looked at me I could somewhat tell she liked my look. She was excited that I bought my motorbike with me with an extra helmet and she was ready to hop on with no fear. From the start, I immediately was touchy with her to let her know I was interested in her physically. The fact that the extra helmet I had couldn't fit her small head gave me the opportunity to help her tighten the strap. While helping her with the helmet I rubbed her cheeks, accidentally somehow brushed my thumb against her lips, etc, all the while looking into her eyes. She looked away though but that didn't faze me. We rode around the city and I took her to a good spot for viewing the city. She was making comments like "ooh this is nice'" most of the time especially when we were riding the outer lane on a bridge with the barrier being the only separation from plunging down into Manhattan's east river and the NYC skyline. After the motorcycle tour we grabbed something to eat and I decided to suggest for us to have a drink in my neighborhood. She agreed and we proceeded to take the long ride back to my hood. (At this point I've already been steadily closing the physical gap by touching her gently in the back when guiding her to walk in a certain direction or grab and hold her leg while on my motorbike during a red light when I turn around to explain a certain area of town or pointing out a landmark).

We get to close to my neighborhood and I decided that having a drink at a bar was a waste of time. The whole point was to lure her to my place where I can get her tipsy and then initiate sex, so I cooked up an excuse that worked perfectly.

Me: "You know that wine bar i mentioned is kind of on the expensive side."

Finnish girl: "Oh, that's not good."

(Knowing she was a broke couch surfer who didn't want to spend too much money, I gave her an alternative)

Me: "I have wine at my place. Let's go to my place instead."

FG: (hesitant) "I think the bar is better."

Me: "The bar is expensive for just one drink. We are going to my place, my wine is free."

(Notice how I didn't give her a choice. The most she can do at this point is just say no or follow orders)

FG: "Okay."

One thing I learned is never give a girl to make a direct choice at a time like that. It was likely she already wanted to come over and sex was probably already on her mind, she can't agree to it directly because then she will feel like she is allowing this to happen on her own. But with me being assertive and confident in my decision she can now just tell herself she is following me or going with the flow.

We ride over to my place and I park the bike as she waits in front of my building. I walk on over and she follows me inside my building. The Mexicans that live in the building are hanging outside and look at me bringing this white girl home....

 

To be Continued....

Tuesday, April 30, 2013

How to find White girls that like Asian men on Couchsurfing.org

How to find white girls that like or might be interested in Asian men on couchsurfers? The answer is quite simple. I look for 3 things in a white girl’s profile to determine if she might be down for Asian meat.

The first and the most neutral is, has she traveled to any Asian countries before? Check her profile, see if she has been to countries like China, Korea, Japan, Thailand, etc. If she has, there is a slight possibly that she might be already attracted to or open (what I mean by open is that she hasn’t been with an Asian man before but will succumb to one if you run good game and seduce her) to Asian men. The more Asian countries she's been to the higher chance she will like Asian men.

Second, once again has she been to any Asian countries in the past and also LOOK to see if she listed any Asian countries she would like to visit in the future. Check her photos and if she proudly posted pictures of herself posing in Asian countries or having to be involved with Asian culture (for ex: posing on the Great wall of China or sitting in a pretty Japanese flower garden or eating Korean food or wearing a Japanese Kimono) then there is a very likely chance that she is interested in Asian men already.

Third and last is a sure guarantee that she likes Asian men.  Check her profile to see what she lists as languages she is able to speak. If she lists something like; (German – expert, English – intermediate and Japanese – beginner) that is a very sure sign she is open and interested to Asian culture or why else take the time to learn a completely new language? Also check to see if she written anything like, “I’m into Korean culture and currently learning to speak Korean.” Check her references in the past and see if any Asian guys as former hosts had left reviews/comments about her. If you can match any one of these from the third section to any white girl’s profile on couchsurfers, you have a very solid prospect on hand.

Here is a perfect example of an actual White girl's profile on Couchsurfing.org that leaves hints that she is into Asian men. All the key words are in bold

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Personal Description

I always try to do what inspires me! I'm singing and writing songs - it inspires me! I love reading books, especially the psychology, and all about self-development - it fascinates me! I love to try new things! and every day I try to learn something new! though it may be weird but I love to watch football! My favorite team is Manchester United! I even have their uniforms! I have to do only one thing it's learn to play myself) haha I respect people with a sense of humor! this is a good quality! I'm easy-going girl! and the same time I'm a very determined person. I often set goals for myself. Some are big, some small. I started learn Japanese about a year ago because I want to relate my life to this beautiful country. I also dream of traveling around the world! if I win in the lottery it will be the first thing I will do! haha))))

Locations Traveled

TRAVELED: Turkey LIVED: Germany WANTS TO GO: England, Japan

I guarantee you she likes or will like Asian men. All that is left is for you to do the initiating and seduction under the guise of a culture exchange, host or tour guide :)

Thursday, April 4, 2013

Stuck on 19 notches

I won't count this as a cold spell since I am getting steady sex from my doctor girl for the past 3 months. However, what steady sex really is: " the same old pussy." While its awesome having a girl coming over once or twice a week to please and satisfy you it can get really boring drilling the same hole over and over again. My last new notch with the Taiwanese girl and although she was very attractive it has already been 2 months and the thrill of that new conquest has since worn thin. Although I've been actively pursuing new notches I haven't had much luck as of late. I went back to online dating again going out with two 9's (scale 1 - 10) Asian American women but the dates did not go well at all leaving me feeling even more in a slump. The dates with these girls reminded me on why I never pursued Asian American women to start with anyways. The looks were there but the chemistry was far off and I am beginning to feel my game is lacking something, or needs to be updated or retrained from scratch.

There is also a Korean girl who was a devout Christian and although I got her number getting her to go out with me on a date was harder then trying to get a boner swimming in freezing beach water. Word of advice, when you find out a girl is a serious Christian, don't bother going for her pussy unless you are planning to work years to drill that hole. Talked to a few other girls just to realize later they were involved with someone and cheating was not an option. I got pretty close to 20 notches with a girl from the west coast but when I got out there she flaked on me after 2 weeks of big sex talk, promise of anal, swallowing my cum and non stop fucking. I felt even more like a jackass spending 2 weeks talking to this troll with nothing to show for. (Will write about this more in another blog entry about my trip to the west coast).

Getting my 20th notch is proving to be a challenge but it is the first of things to do on my conquest list. Now to sharpen my rod and go out hunting

Tuesday, March 26, 2013

Sneak Preview on my book: Get Laid In Hong Kong. A Travel and Sex Guide for the Western Asian Male

Been doing a lot of writing lately on my book: Get Laid in Hong Kong. A Travel and Sex Guide for the Western Asian Male. I'm happy to say that I am more than half way done with the rough draft. So far the rough draft is at 62 pages and over 20,000 words on my tips, secrets, game, strategies and research that I did and used to get laid in Hong Kong and this will help any Western Asian male to get ass in Hong Kong too. I still see at least another 20 pages left to write and I'm getting excited just talking about the it. I'm aiming (hoping) to finish up the final draft, get it edited and copyrighted for release by May of this year. Will you keep you all updated on my book!

Here is the sneak preview of a screen shot cover of my book! (The actual picture of the Hong Kong girl I fucked).

 

Hong Kong Girl

COMING SOON.....


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**Update: 05/27/14**


The book is finally out! Get Laid in Hong Kong. A Travel and Sex Guide for the Western Asian Male, can help any Western Asian male or White male get pussy and sex in Hong Kong. This is a step by step, how to guide on how to get laid with the local Hong Kong Girls. This book is a must have! Currently available in eBook PDF format, 233 pages and over 50,000 words of tips and advice


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Sunday, March 24, 2013

An Asian man and White Woman Romantic Comedy to watch

I never heard of Director James Huang (credit this find to a fellow Asian male member on an online interracial dating group) but this comedy surely looks interesting. The trailer had me laughing a few times but what is more interesting to me is that this is the first romantic and comedy film that I've seen that involves an Asian male protagonist and a White female. Hollywood does so much to portray relationships with Asian women and White men but do everything they can to make Asian men look undesirable and asexual. Kudos to this film and Dir. Huang! Support a fellow Asian American man doing his thing!





"Starting from Scratch" (2013) is an independent feature film. (Dramatic comedy)
IMDb:
imdb.com/title/tt2093235/
Official Website:
startingfromscratchmovie.com/
Facebook page:
facebook.com/StartingFromScratch.movie

'Love is taxing. Audit yourself.'
Synopsis:
A young couple are on the brink of divorce when they are audited by the IRS. As they cope with their roller-coaster of emotions and attempt to move on, they must sort through the last year of receipts. Through the audit process, the couple begins understand what went wrong.



http://vimeo.com/40745207
Thursday, March 28th at 9:55pm L.A. Festival Premiere of 'Starting from Scratch' at the historic Beverly Hills Laemmle Music Hall 3 theater! Cast & Crew will be in attendance and please help spread the word!

This is a special screening by the Independent Filmmakers Showcase Film Festival. 2013 festival wins include: 'Best Comedy', 'Best Editing', 'Vanguard Award for Ensemble Cast', 'Best Film - Honorable Mention' and 2 opening night film honors.

Friday, March 22, 2013

TheLonewolftraveler is currently embarking on a new adventure!

The urge to travel has been fulfilled once again! This time its not an international adventure but more of a laid back getaway from the Siberian winter of nyc. Lwt is currently relaxing somewhere on the sunny west coast, chilling on the beach, sipping cocktails, eating heart attack causing Mexican food, (but f'n delicious) and having sex. Will write a more detailed blog entry when I get back!