Which is the Best Online Dating App?

I was never a big fan of online dating. I prefer the old fashioned method of cold approach which essentially is approaching a girl on the street at any random time with any random opener to get a conversation going, find a common ground, build attraction, then close by getting a phone number.
However, times has changed and technology is making our lives easier in every aspect of life, including the way we meet girls for dating. The modern way of meeting girls is through dating apps such as Coffee Meets Bagel, Tinder, OK cupid, and Meetup. There is actually some benefit of online dating that we cannot fail to recognize.
First off, it allows you to have exposure to all types of women, from all walks of life, women that you would otherwise never be exposed to if it weren’t for online dating apps. The amount of women you can meet online is infinite comparing to trying to talk to girls on the street. There are only so many approaches you can do. The great thing of online dating is that you also know that these girls on single so you won’t waste your time going after a girl that is already taken or involved with another guy.
Now for the purpose of this post, which online dating app/website is the best?  My answer is obviously my opinion and others may disagree but I will share the reasons why I chose the ones I did. Of all the dating apps, I narrowed it down to 4 apps that I used the most and have the most experience with. I will rank them from the last place (the worst) to the first place (the best).

4. Ok Cupid – https://www.okcupid.com/

Okcupid might have been a good dating app at one point in time but with all these new apps coming out they are a thing of the past. They might as well call it Ok Stupid, come waste your time on this app that won’t get you laid at all. That’s exactly the experience that I had using Okcupid. First off, this app always has some kind of technical issue. I can’t even remember how many times I get booted off and my entire account cannot be located and I am unable to log onto it ever again. The site always gives some bogus reason on having technically difficulties but after some research I realize that Okcupid does some kind of cleansing purge from time to time to manage the amount of accounts that they have. So in order words, some random accounts will be deleted for no reason at all.  I can imagine some major cockblocker sitting behind a computer working for Okcupid and just deleting accounts of guys who are close to scoring or doing very well for themselves and he decides to make their account disappear out of jealousy. There were a few times where I was having good messages with attractive females and building up interest and attractive with them. Then just when I’m about to ask them for their number then my account gets deleted.

Okcupid Engineer: “If I can’t get laid, then you can’t too!”

Besides that, the quality of the girls on OkCupid isn’t all that great and for some reason lately it’s been flooded by obese black and Spanish girls. The White and Asian girls here are of lower quality. Many of the girls I met on OKcupid were a waste of time and worst, a waste of my money. The money and time that I invested trying to wine and dine to lay these girls did not pay off or even come close to it. The girls on Okcupid are low quality, unattractive, and flaky. The website and app always encounters some kind of tech issue and the customer service sucks. Ok Cupid has not gotten me laid EVER and I’ve been using it on and off since 2012. Save your time and money, there are better dating apps out there.
Good for: Guys who like Black and Spanish girls. Guys who likes the girls with “more to love.”

3. Tinder – https://tinder.com/app/login

Has a notorious reputation for being a “hook up” site. I would agree as most of the girls here are down to fuck whether it will be a one nights stand or a quick fling. But to be honest, I feel this app will work more in the favor to White, Black, or Spanish males. Asian guys can get laid on this app but I see us having to put in more work as compared to the other races. The majority of women on this site are Non Asians, mostly White and Spanish women. It’s a great site to use for White Males and I know countless white guys that get laid on this site like champs. I myself, an Asian male; met a Dominican girl in NYC who had a thing for Asian guys using the tinder app. This site will get you laid.; some more than others.
Best for: White Males
Worst for: Asian Males
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2. Meetup – https://www.meetup.com/

Meetup at one point of my life was my favorite dating app. It has gotten me more dates than I can remember and has gotten me laid plenty of times. Meetup differs in ways where besides just a dating app, it can also be an activity app. So instead of just messaging girls and asking for dates as you would with tinder for example, you can join a like minded group such as table tennis, scary movies, or join a groups such Single Asians in NYC that do fun stuff and get to meet girls all while still enjoying fun activities such as skydiving, surfing, snowboarding with the group
Great for all types of people: Asian, White, Black, Hispanic, Indian. There are groups formed for all types of people for all walks of life.
This dating site is especially great for foreign countries. It is a great way to meet girls really quick while your visiting another country. Trust me, I know. When I was in Hong Kong using this site got me plenty of dates and sex.

1. Coffee Meets Bagel – https://coffeemeetsbagel.com/

Coffee meets Bagels is a fairly new dating app but it seems to taken the online dating world by storm. I think CMB is the best online dating app for Asian males and is the one dating app that has the most Asians on it. I think this can be attributed to the founders being Asians themselves. If you’ve seen the Shark-tank episode of the Kang sisters trying to pitch this dating app to the sharks and they get a one time 30 million dollar offer from Mark Cuban which they turned down! That’s how much potential they saw in this app and they felt it was worth much more which it seems as of now they were right.

This app has a non stop ending supply of girls. It’s a clean design, user friendly, and easy to use. The only issues I have with it is the occasionally technical freezes but its not all that bad given the value and the quality of the girls on the app. You can easily personalize your matches to Asian girls, white girls, age range, location, etc. Most girls here are of high quality in terms of looks and education and are a lot less flaky. I even met a few virgins on this site.
I just starting using this app about 2 months ago and I’ve already gotten laid twice, fooled around with a few others and an endless flow of dates on the weekends. I have countless dates and phone numbers from it then I actually kind not keep up with it all that I have to pick and choose and weed out the girls that I think won’t be worth the time. This is the first time in online dating that I had so much girls on rotation that I get to pick and choose (besides using meetup.com in Hong Kong). I have good luck getting blonde white girls on this site, something I cannot do on tinder for instance. This site is Asian man friendly and if your an Asian or White male, I highly recommend you use it!
Good for: Asian and White Males
Hookups, casual dating, or long term relationships
For more tips on how to hook up with girls on Coffee Meets Bagel check out this book written by a fellow Asian American author

10 Books that Changed My Life

These books are my all time favorites and it has added tremendous value to my life in one way or another. I personally believe that every man should read these book at some point in his life and the earlier the better for the knowledge in these books are worth every cent. Every one of these books are LWT Approved so make sure you get them and read them at least once. Click on the Images to be taken to the Amazon page if you do decide to purchase them. LWT approved, Nuff said.

Books that changed my Sex and Love Life

1. How to Succeed with Women – By Ron Louis and David Copeland: This is my ALL TIME FAVORITE GAME BOOK. First game book that I had ever read in my life way back in 2007. Prior to that, I did not have sex for 4 long years during my prime in my early twenties and was failing with women miserably. I could barely get numbers and when I did, I was not able to build attraction on dates. I couldn’t get them to think of me romantically and definitely was not getting laid. I don’t remember exactly how I stumbled upon this book but I believe I was browsing the self help and relationships section of Border’s Book Stores looking for some kind of help with my attracting the opposite sex. The book stood out with it’s all black cover and the title How to Succeed with Women written on the spine in bold white letters. I pulled the book out of the shelf, browsed through it, then bought it. One of the best investments in my life. I read from front to back and utilized the knowledge and tips and was able to score with the Chinese Goldigger girl using the advice I gained from this book. From there on out, I improved my dating and sex life and I always credit this book, as the book that started it all for me. I vouch for this book and it was worth every penny I paid for it. LWT approved. Nuff said. Even from time to time, I find myself going back to this book to re-educate myself. The fundamentals in this book will apply to any generation. Click on the image for the link to the book.
Note: The book is more for men who looking to date women, not for quick hookups and one night stands.

2. Bang – By Roosh V: Where as How to Succeed with Women is more of a dating game book; Bang is more geared to night club/life easy hook up, fling, one night stand type of book. Roosh V is infamous in the PUA world and his work is famous worldwide and he is really one of the pioneers of the manosphere. His bang guide teaches on how long to wait to contact a girl after getting her number to giving actual dialougues on what to say on the texts, and what to do when your on the physical date with the girl. He teaches the moves to make, the things to say, even the strawberry game when on the first date to build attraction to lay a girl on the first date. Gaming classic. If your serious about gaming girls for dates and sex, and be successful at it, then this is a MUST READ.

Note: This guide is more for men who are looking for quick ups, one night stands. Men who want to pick up girls in the night life; bars, clubs.
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3. Day Bang – By Roosh V: I’m a big follower of Roosh V throughout the years and even though his blog provides plenty of value for FREE, his books that you pay for provide even more value and his secrets in gaming women for sex are all exposed in his Bang Guides. Bang, is a predominately a pick up at bars, clubs, nightlife kind of guide whereas Day Bang is the exact opposite. I don’t really consider myself a night life person nor have I have picked up much girls from nightlife. Must of my hunting comes during the day, where I approach girls in coffee shops, shopping malls, hotel lobbies, on the street, in the subway. I will use a random opener like a pair of shoes they are wearing and make a comment on it or pretending to be lost and ask for directions then proceed to start a conversation with the girl. Almost most of the time, a girl is very receptive to a regular approach whereas during the nightlife, she might have her defensive bitch shield. I approached countless times during the day, gotten phone numbers which eventually turned into dates and then sex. Day Bang covers this to a full extent; on how to approach, where to approach, which girls that are approachable and want to say. Excellent value in this guide.
Note: This guide is for men who like to go out during the day and isn’t much of a night life kind of person. You can still flirt and pick up women during the day and this is my (LWT) preferred way of approaching and picking up girls.

4. TextAppeal – For Guys! The Ultimate Texting Game – By Michael Masters: Gone are the days of calling girls for dates and sex. Everything is about texting, social media, whats-app, etc. I can’t even remember how many times I lost a potential lay due to the fact that I didn’t text properly and refused to believe that even something like texting girls for date and sex, needed game. In comes this guide, Text Appeal FOR GUYS. Quite honstely, I was sick of texting a girl just to wait hours for a response that never fucking comes. I would have to retrace the text chain to see if I had texted something wrong or portrayed neediness and made myself seem uninteresting and unappealing. This guide is literally a step by step dialogue guide on how to text a girl for a date and keep it simple but appealing. In order words, it teaches you how to text girls to get laid. 

Note: Getting the phone number is not the hard part. Sometimes texting the girl and getting her to even respond, let alone be willing to meet you on the date is the hard part. In this day and age, even texting needs to be gamed. Hence comes, the Texting game. Sometimes texting the right way, can be the difference to whether you get laid or not.

Books that changed my Financial Knowledge  and got me questioning the Rat Race Lifestyle

5. Rich Dad Poor Dad – By Robert Kiyosaki: The book opened my eyes to a whole new world. All my life, I’ve been brainwashed thinking that the 9-5 job was the only means to any sort financial life. Think about it, we been lead to believe in going to college, getting good grades, get a job and work till your old and gray. Why were we forced to take crap like calculus when it doesn’t apply to real life scenarios. Wouldn’t it make more sense to take courses like accounting, stock investing, real estate investing, etc. instead. Rich Dad Poor Dad really opens you eyes to change your mentality and realize that financial IQ and education is just as important (if not more important) then any other type of education in life. Don’t think like a poor person or you will become a poor person. This book is all about mentality. You need a winning mentality to win. A fucking MUST READ.

6. Get Real Get Rich. Conquer the 7 Lies blocking you from Success – By Farrah Gray: Another financial IQ/Education book that removes the brainwash and gets your brain thinking out of the box on other LEGAL ways on how to make money other then the soul sucking 9-5 rat race office job. I dissected this book piece by piece, page by page, and proceeded to use my brain and brainstorm countless demands that I can supply and make money legally. Not much long after, I started my first online business and to this day, I give credit to this book for giving me the knowledge and inspiration.

Travel and Sex Adventure Books = Entertaining Reads

7. Naughty Nomad – Not your Typical Backpacker Story – By Mark Zolo:  Read book, real shit. This documents this Irish explorer exploits around the world including sleeping with multiple women and capturing flags to traveling to life threatening experiences in the most dangerous and remote places in the world. A Fun Read

8. Black Passenger in a Yellow Cab – Stephen Bryan: Story of a Black man’s sexual exploits with Japanese women during his stay in Japan. This book is unbelievable and this black guy just plows through the Japanese pussy like it was some kind of porn movie come true. I can’t tell you how envious I am since I love Japanese girls and hope to do that kind of damage on the little island one day.

9. Around the World in 80 Girls – By Neil Skywalker: I think the title pretty much sums it all up. Similar to the naughty nomad book, an adventure and sex memoir. Another fun read

10. How to Date a White Woman. A Practical Guide for Asian Men – By Adam Quan: The racist monkey Steve Harvey recently made a mockery of this book on his show and proceeded to mock and humiliate Asian men on how we were undesirable and no female in the right mind would want to date us.

http://www.tmz.com/2017/01/17/steve-harvey-apologizes-asian-men-joke/

He made fun of this guide on his show and made a complete mockery of it along with the Asian Male population. Funny thing is that he gave this book so much exposure now that it selling on Amazon for ridiculous prices. Not his intent but I’m sure the author of this guide is smiling all the way to the bank.
My opinion of this book is although I agree with some of the points, I also disagree with others. However, it is based on his own opinions and experiences and as an Asian man I can relate to some of the material in this guide.

The Finnish Girl that got away Part 2

 

Previous Post: The Finnish girl that got away Part 1


We walked into the elevator and found a surprise waiting inside for us. The floor had a splatter of what either looked like vomit or spilled leftover food that has been chewed, mashed and stepped on a billion times. The smell was rather unpleasant and it located right by the elevator entrance that we had to do a large step/leap over just to avoid stepping into it. Another woman squeezed into the elevator and she was rather “large” so you can imagine, 3 people (or 3 and a half) crammed into the corner of the elevator trying to avoid this slop that was on the floor. What a wonderful first impression I thought to myself, it had to be the fucking Mexicans who live in the building that barfed out their dinner because of one too many coronas. I decided to make a joke:

Me: “Looks like someone didn’t like their food.”
All of us laughed, so that was a good way of breaking the awkwardness. (Note: Humor always has its way of diffusing an unpleasant situation. That is if the people have a sense of humor of course). We go inside my apartment and I take her straight to my bedroom. I open the light and I noticed the first thing she stares at is my bed.

Gaming Tip: When you are going to go out with a girl you need to prepare for success in advance. Clean your room, stack up your clothes, put condoms in an easy accessible place and most importantly; make your bed nice and neat and change the sheets. Why? Because when a girl agrees to go back to your place, sex or the possibility of sex is on her mind. Why else would a girl agree to go back to a guy’s place? To look at his gold fish or just watch TV? Once a girl agrees to go back to your place means that she is already interested in you and considering sex, otherwise she would just choose to go home instead. Now when she comes to your place with the possibility of sex on her mind the first thing she would look at when she enters your bedroom is your bed. (Bed to a woman relates to the place of sex and intimacy takes place) It’s crucial that your bed is clean and neat looking so its inviting to a female. When she looks at your bed she is considering whether she should get naked on it and stay the night in those sheets. If it is a mess she would get turned off and think “I’m not letting him fuck me or let my naked body get anywhere near that bed.” Having a neat bed is a crucial factor to your game and you getting laid. This is very important and you MUST not look past it.

Not my actual bed, but you get the point. A bed like this, gets you LAID

I tell her to get comfortable while I open a bottle of red wine. (I have a good wine stash tucked away for moments like this. Also have wine glasses to drink out of. Reason being is, physiologically it is a lot more romantic for a girl to be drinking wine in your room while you sit her on your bed out of a sexy clean wine glass. Remember females pay attention to the little details and it wouldn’t be to sexy to have her drink wine out of your coffee mug would it?)
We drank some wine and I went on my computer while she sat on my bed looking at me. Man, she looked sexy as her legs were crossed and pointing at my direction. I looked at her curves that went all the way down to her waist line and imagined her naked with pubic mound. She saw me looking at her and quickly looked away. I decided to play some music to try to loosen her up (literally). I played one of my favorite romantic songs that works on almost all the girls that I play it for so far:

After a few more minutes and a few more sips of wine, I can tell she was beginning to get comfortable. The soft voice and lyrics (although she didn’t understand it, she can tell it was a romantic song) was getting to her and I got up from my computer seat and sat next to her on my bed. While the song was playing a playfully leaned against her side. She didn’t move away. Okay, a good sign……I began slowly tickling her leg softly and playfully and she laughed but didn’t move her leg away. Good….she’s open to me touching her….I turn around and start kissing the side of neck softly and gently. She breathes heavily. I begin to kiss her neck more and put my hands on her waistline bordering her butt. Not once did I kiss her lips.
Next thing I know, she is on her back while I was over her kissing and licking her all the way down to her chest and stomach. I started to feel her up with my hands and eventually slowly pulled her shirt up and began to lick and fondle her chest. When she didn’t offer much resistance I began to undo her jeans. She then quickly turns over and lays on her belly as in to tell me that she doesn’t want her pants off but I wasn’t having it. I began to work on her back licking and kissing it and then slowly began to pull down her jeans and panties slightly. She holds onto her jeans but I manage to get it down enough for me to spread her ass and eat her out from behind. First time trying out the Finnish taste and it didn’t disappoint






She began to get wetter and I could feel that she was just about ready for the real deal I began to prep her for penetration.

I say: “I don’t want to use a condom”

Finnish Girl: “Why not?”

Me: “I want to feel you……and your wetness”
No response…..She didn’t approve or disapprove….I’ll make the decision, I didn’t want the condom. Then a voice in my head goes off: She’s a traveling girl, couch surfing her way through the world. Who the heck knows if she has been cock surfing along the way……I don’t know if it would be wise to go raw on this girl.
I didn’t care, I wanted to do this bitch raw but feeling the need to satisfy by subconscious, I decided to ask the stupidest fucking question and the stupidest fucking time…

Me: “Do you have any STD’s?”

Gaming Tip DO NOT’S: Pure fucking stupidity on my part. Never ever ask a girl that when she is hot and heavy and ready to give it up to you. First you should use a condom on a stranger at all times. Second, never fucking ask a girl if she has STD’s, or anything in that kind of manner.
The smooth way of asking this question would be: “Are you clean?” I’ve asked girls that I was going to go raw on plenty of times and that has never turn them off. Think about it for a second; it is a lot more of a tact way of asking that question without being too descriptive. It’s like saying I’m going to use the bathroom compared to saying I’m going to take a dump. Your imagination would not run wild hearing the first statement but has the potential to get turned off by the second statement. This is especially so when it comes to girls. Get my point?

She is instantly turned off by my question and stops me dead in my tracks and shuts me down from any further advances. She pulls up her jeans and tells me that she cannot do anything sexual with me because she already as a boyfriend back in Finland and won’t cheat on him. (she had mentioned to be me earlier in the day that she had a boyfriend but at the time I could care less) Interesting, because prior to my retarded question, she was face down in my pillow moaning as I was eating her out from behind. She then asks me to drop her off at the train station because she didn’t want to get back to her couch surfer host’s apartment too late. I try to stir up the sexual tension once more but it was hopeless. The moment was killed….I drop her off at the nearest subway and she tells me that she might come see me again tomorrow, which she never does.
It was obvious to me that the reason why I was not able to close the deal and penetrate this girl and capture my Finnish flag wasn’t due to the fact that she had a boyfriend but it was because was because of poor delivery of a question that could have been easily avoided. I had cock blocked myself with my own big mouth. Point of this story, don’t say anything stupid that might get yourself cock blocked.

Point of this Story: Don’t say anything STUPID that might end up cock blocking yourself

Operation Finnish Pussy: FAILED

Korean Girls Vs Chinese Girls

This question has been asked by so many of my fellow brethren that share the same interests in chasing the Asian female tail. So often guys ask me which one is better, Korean or Chinese girls?
Before I get to my personal experiences that I had with these types of girls let’s break down the pros and cons of Korean and Chinese girls.

Korean Girls

This is what your Korean model would look like

Your average Korean girls.

Just a side note, when I mention Korean girls, I mean South Korean girls  from the Republic of Korea. I have never gotten a chance to experience a North Korean girl so this post does not represent Korean girls as a whole but only South Korean girls specifically. I would be open to having a North Korean lover but the chances of that might be slim since they are a rarity, unless I meet a defector one day.
The Pros:
Very feminine. Most Korean girls looks and physical build is what a female should be. They have soft skin, smell great (all over), long soft hair, and have nice sweet voices and bodies. Rarely would you find a fat Korean girl and if you do it is a very small minority.
Your average Korean girl has higher cheekbones then their Chinese counterparts. They tend to have lighter milkier skin, and their eyes tend to be more distinctive slant where someone like me who is Asian, can normally figure out if they are a Chinese or Korean girl. Physically they are normally slim, with nice straight long hair, but mostly flat chested and with a small but slim butt. This is more so for the FOB Korean girls, I tend to notice that the American born Korean girls are more thicker with bigger breasts and ass. The best thing I like physically about Korean girls are their tight vaginas and distinct feminine features. If you penetrate a Korean girl, be prepared for night tight snug.
Korean girls have a feisty to them that drives their sex appeal ten folds. They can have attitude and a jealousy to them that makes them all that sexier. If you have go around FOB Korean communities here in NYC, sometimes you might see Korean girls talk loud, or cuss about something in Korean, or even yell and hit their boyfriends. Most of that is just a front because once they you get them in the bedroom you can fuck their brains out. Korean girls with these bitchy exteriors tend to be very submissive in bed. They let the man take control and all they can do is scream while you fuck them back literally for all the bitch attitude they gave you before.
Korean girls have great hygiene. They smell nice “down there” and smell great overall. They tend to be cleaner then their Chinese counterparts.
The Cons:
Plastic surgery in South Korea is not only rampant but it is a thriving multi million dollar business in South Korea. Korean women spend thousands of dollars to get work done on their eyes (double eye lid), their nose, their chins, etc. Many actresses and KPop singers had plastic surgery at one point and it is practically a cultural thing for Korean women. My current Korean girl that I am dating has confessed to me that most Korean girls are fake, and 1 out of every 5 girls probably have done some work of some sort. Be careful with the really pretty ones who also wear a lot of makeup. She might have been the ugly girl you ignored back in high school but became a cheerleader after her plastic surgery.
Goldiggers! Materialistic! Self centered, selfish, and arrogant. It is a cultural thing. In Korea, everything is about money, status, and material wealth. Koreans judge their peer for status, money, and material items such as handbags, cars, designer clothes, etc. These girls tend to be miserable at heart and hide the facade and misery behind all their material wealth. (This type of attitude reflects in South Korea’s high suicide rate) Girls like this can be horrible lovers as they won’t do much for their man in return but have impossible demands in return from men such as money, power, career, status, giving financially and emotionally all while they give none back in return.
They can be racist of other Asians and other races. Personally, I never experienced this myself with any of the Korean girls I’ve been sexual with in the Western world or in Korea but I’ve heard stories from Chinese and other Asians on how they were rejected for not being Korean. This is not such a con given the fact that a lot of other women tend to reject other races as lovers (For ex: White, Hispanic, Middle Eastern, Indian tend to stick with their own men). There is nothing wrong with women wanting to be with their own men but they should reject men of other races with respect and class. Not such a con in my experiences but I thought this was still worth mentioning in case someone does run into a racist Korean girl.

My Experiences with Korean girls: (My Top 3 Favorites)

1. If you have read my old school post My Time in the City of Seoul, I met a Korean girl and actually flew all the way across the world to a country and culture that I really wasn’t familiar with just to pursue a relationship with her. This was my first time traveling aboard and was inspiration to become the TheLoneWolftraveler. This was one of the best trips of all time for me (so far) and to this day I still have very fond memories of her. She made me fall in love with her city, Korean food, beer, movies, bars, coffee shops, and Korean culture as a whole. She almost, almost…..made me fall in love with her too.
2. The Korean American Girl was a very attractive and petite Korean girl from San Francisco. She fits all of the physical descriptions I had mentioned above. It took me four hours after meeting her to get her into bed and I went 4 rounds in one night and still couldn’t get enough. Her sex appeal drove me wild and she was an awesome fuck in bed. I spent only $20 bucks to get her into bed and she even payed for my lunch which cost twice as much. I love Korean girls
3. My current steady girl is Korean and she tops all the other girls I’ve been with in terms of loyalty, giving, respect, generosity, and kindness. She also pays for 40% of our dates which is a hard to find with Korean/Asian girls in general.

Chinese Girls

Chinese girl from Hong Kong

Chinese girl from Beijing

Your average Chinese girls

Unlike Korea, which all the girls can be traced back to small little South Korea, China girls come from a vast country. Chinese girls can come from all over China from cities like Hong Kong, Shanghai, Beijing, Guandong, Fuzhou, etc. Chinese girls are so plentiful and note that just because they are Chinese it doesn’t mean that they all speak the same language, culture, customs, etc. There are more than 200 different Chinese dialects so a girl from Northern China can be from a completely different world when compared to a Chinese girl from the Southern China despite it being the same country.  Let’s think of the USA for instance. A liberal from the North can be a complete opposite of a republican from the South, despite both of them being fellow countrymen. Mandarin is the main language of the country and is the English of the country. It might be spoken differently with distinct accents that originate from the provinces they come from, similar to a Boston accent, a Brooklyn accent, southern accent, etc.
The Pros:
More to choose from! There is definitely more Chinese girls to choose from then Korean. Chinese girls are literally all over the world and can be found obviously in China but other parts of Asia like Singapore, Malaysia. They are plentiful in Western countries like the USA, Canada, UK, and Australia. Most of the time when you try to hook up with an Asian girl, chances are the girl will be Chinese. It is just the probability. There are just that much more Chinese girls then Korean girls and they are that much more available. I noticed that Chinese girls are much more open to dating someone that is not Chinese compared to a Korean girl dating a Non Korean. They tend to be less racist in general especially when it comes to a sexual partner.  (This has it’s pros and cons as I will mention later).
Nice body, nice tight vaginas, long straight hair, delicate soft skin, nice small hands, and overall feminine attributes. Physically Chinese girls are the ideal females. They are petite, non masculine, tight bodies, and smell nice. They don’t tend to be much fat Chinese girls when compared to their White and especially Black and Hispanic counterparts.
They put out quite easy. My average conversion rate for getting sex from Chinese girls ranges anywhere from 1 to 2 dates only. Then there are those that give it up on the first date or at least fool around and there are those they might take a few more dates to work it, but that is the small minority.
The Cons:
Just like their Korean counterparts, Chinese girls are fucking gold-diggers. A large majority are still in the old fashion mind sight where the guys have to be the ones to pay for all the dates, gifts, dinner, etc. Guys have to pay for everything and very rarely would you find a Chinese girl that would actually pay.
Note that girls from Shanghai are the worst of the worst. I’ve dated a few Shanghai girls and not only they did not pay a single cent on any of the dates, they openly try to hustle me to pay for their cell phone bill and other things! They will judge what kind of man you are solely by what kind of career you have and what is your job title. Anything less of a high paying white collar salary is see as “low class.” Hong Kong girls are fair no better with their attitudes and materialism. They are a cross breed of western feminism mixed with a “I’m a Hong Kong princess and it needs to be my way or no way” mentality. This combination makes them a toxic girls for long term dating.
They expect you to know the answer to everything including how to fix her computer, troubleshoot her broken light, even the answer to what she fucking wore last week. You have to be a genius, a handyman, a provider, a responsible gentleman, generous…..the list just continues…
Now as previously mentioned, they are more open to dating a Non Chinese then a Korean girl is to dating a Non Korean. Although most Asian women will sleep with anything with a pole regardless of color, Chinese girls take it to the next level. Too many Chinese girls that I met, I would never had figure out what whores they really based on their appearance. I’ve met Chinese girls that have slept with all kinds of colors, sizes, species, etc. In they eyes of others, they are just flat out easy and Chinese girls will open their legs to a dirty grease-ball  janitor if he had a working penis. Chinese girls have no standards when it comes to dating preferences and I need my girls to have some sort of cultural pride, self respect, and standards.
Chinese girls lack with their hygiene vs their Korean counterparts. I meant a few girls with a stench “down there” but thankfully that is few. Korean girls just seem cleaner and smell better. I mean its a common fact though, Koreantowns are always cleaner than Chinatowns lol
My experiences with Chinese Girls:
I had plenty of sexual experiences with Chinese girls, a lot more then Korean girls and I would say out of all those, I have to 2 memorable ones that I would never forget. I had a fulfilling relationship with a tall Chinese girl and a great sexual relationship with another.

Conclusion:
The edge goes to Korean girls. I dated fewer Korean girls but had more fulfilling experiences with them sexually and emotionally. I dated more Chinese girls but only a handful came out decent. Korean girls are more exotic, well kept, and have better hygiene. If you only had the option of choosing one kind of Asian girl, Chinese or Korean, I say go Korean and see if you like it. The beauty of is, if you don’t like Korean you can always just pick up a Chinese girl to go after!

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The Ugly Face of Weakness

 

A few weeks back, an Asian woman made headlines when she was shown crying like an stuck donkey when a Trump supporter allegedly cancelled her AirBnB reservation when she was already en route to the place.
This Asian woman, decides to film a video of herself crying with her tears smudging her makeup across an already unflattering face, goes on to cry for a few minutes on how she was on route, then the host cancelled stating that she did it because:
“Your  Asian. It’s why we have Trump.”

See the whole article here
Okay so that’s pretty racist, but hello wake up! This is America! As an Asian man born and raised here in America, I can attest that this kind of racism happens quite often not  only to Asians but to all types of races. All those negative stereotypes portrayed on us, comments like telling us to go back to China, that we eat dogs and cats, and other ethnic racial slurs that I would not mention on this blog, this stuff is nothing new so man the fuck up!
A lot of people in this country has faced far more brutal racism than this but you don’t see them making a video and crying and sobbing about how she was in this country since she was a child (originally from Korea), she considers herself American, blah blah, wah, wah! All types of minorities and even majorities face racism in America and around the world on a daily basis . Racism is an American thing and its certainly a human characteristic that you can find all over the world and happens to people of ALL types of ethnicity so crying about online is not going to change it a thing or help your cause. If shes trying to gather sympathy from anybody because she was called Asian (not even a racial slur) by this Trump supporter then she gets no sympathy from me. If she wants any sympathy maybe she should cry and sob to her White fiancee..

 

That’s right. Another Asian woman crying about how she is subjected to racism for being “Asian” but she has a non Asian boyfriend. How typical…Did this Trump supporter burst your little bubble when she reminded you that your NOT white, but Asian?
You think she would cry if an Asian man was told he was “Asian?”  I doubt it….she would probably do her best to distant herself from this Asian man. But yet she seems so quick to stick up for other minorities but not anyone do I see her standing up for any hate crimes or racism against Asians.



As far as I’m concerned, crying on a video online is not going to get you any sympathy. It just shows weakness. Compose yourself, make your point and be strong about. Crying like a stuck donkey with your makeup smudged all over just shows weakness and I’m sure the lady that allegedly cancelled your reservation took great pleasure and got a kick watching you sob like a 5 year old child.
Racism is everywhere. It’s a human thing. Learn to be strong and face it with some dignity. Don’t cry like a baby for the world to see.


Read next: 10 different types of Asian Women

HATERS WANT TO BAN MY BOOK

Haters want to ban my book

Take away Freedom of Speech! Take away the right to write about what you want about! Anything a straight man writes about his love life is always going to misogynist but when a gay man talks about how proud he is with his gay love life that is embraced as courage and sexual expression. Take away a heterosexual man’s right to write a book to his fellow men on how to improve his sex life and his ability to attract the opposite sex. Let’s do that!
It seems that haters (women, white knights, homosexuals) are on the front lines fighting for their human rights and for equality in this world in which I agree that everyone has a right to pursue what they want without any sore of oppression. What I can’t understand is  when a straight man wants to write about his experiences in his own love life they want to censor you. Talk about hypocrisy.

Its kind of funny because one of the woman that is leading the petition is a Korean American female from Los Angeles whore married to a Mexican. Do I smell a self hating, Asian man hating, self hating Asian whore? There is plenty of those.

Here are some of my readers and supporters pointing out her hypocrisy and calling her out as a self hating Asian whore.

http://en.rocketnews24.com/2015/08/29/top-selling-mysoginistic-guide-for-picking-up-women-in-hong-kong-target-of-change-org-petition/

https://thenanfang.com/hong-kong-sex-tourism-guide-enrages-womens-labor-groups/

So what are you?? Are you a hater or a supporter? Choose your side. Sign the petition or buy the book and Get Laid…..You Decide….

When a Girl does not text you back after the first date Survival Guide

I’m sure all of us has experienced this at least ONCE. (Guys that have played the dating game of course). You ask a girl out, have a pleasant and fun date, you text her a few days after the first date and ask her for a second date and then out of nowhere she poofs and disappears and is never to be heard from again. You are left wondering, WTF happened?
First let me define what a pleasant, great, fun, wonderful, successful first date is:
A pleasant first date is when you and the girl have obvious chemistry, conversations are going well, with teasing, flirting, etc. You both are having fun and you can almost always tell when the other person is having fun. The pleasant first date also includes making out, holding hands, or a simple kiss on the lips that last a few seconds.

How does this define pleasant? Because you know that she has physical attraction for you or why else would she let you kiss her, let you touch her, and hold hands with you? If this all happens are the first date you most likely think “wow that was a great date. I kissed or made out with her, held her hand, even touched her. She likes me.” Your so sure you will see her again for a second date. But when the time comes and you text her, NO RESPONSE. You let a few hours pass and still no response. A few hours turns into a day, a day becomes a few days, a few days turn into a whole week. Still NO RESPONSE. You wonder WTF happened?
You start googling things like: why doesn’t a girl respond to your texts after a good date OR when a girl ignores you after a great first date, etc. You start mind fucking yourself for days wondering what ever happened. Did you say something stupid, wait too long to contact her, did you have bad breath, or you a bad kisser, etc. I know, because I’ve been there more times then I would have liked but unfortunately when you play the dating game, rejections comes in all forms. Even when your almost sure you had her interested and wanting you. Nothing is ever certain, especially when it comes to dating and women.
Recently I was on a date with a beautiful Asian girl (at least a 9 – drop dead beautiful face and body and very feminine). The date went well, almost immediately I steered the conversation into romantic topics, got closer to her, put my arm around her waist, letting my physical interest be known. Chemistry was good, she was more than happy for a venue change during the date and we held hands and I leaned in and gave her a kiss (few seconds, no tongue). She responded to it well and I was the first one to pull away. Towards the end of the night I got a little more aggressive with my kissing and touching but I never once pushed too far (At least I didn’t think so). The surprising truth was I didn’t want to have sex with this girl on the same night and I actually was interested in her and perhaps would like to have date her more. I restraint from going to far with my kissing and touching and dropped her off and then went home. By all standards this was a pleasant date. Waited 3 days before contacting her (note: i thought about her all weekend but couldn’t bring myself to contact her too early. Did not want to appear needy). I sent her a text and NO RESPONSE. Waited a few more days and sent her another text. NO RESPONSE. I couldn’t believe it. Everything went well on the first date and she would have had me fooled if she said she wasn’t interested. But nothing…she never responded, not even to tell me she wasn’t interested.
What happened? I couldn’t believe it. I actually felt like a beta for a few days wondering and obsessing over what might have happened to cause her not to respond to my text especially after such a pleasant first date.
Then I realized one thing. NOTHING when it comes to Women is ever certain. There are many reasons she may have not responded. Perhaps she had a boyfriend and was dating me just to see what else was out there. Perhaps she was bored and wanted a free drink that night. Perhaps her friends cock-blocked me by saying negative things, perhaps she met another guy the next day that she liked even more. My point is, it can be a million reasons why she never responded. Also a rule of thumb is, the more beautiful the girl is, the more chance she would never respond to you after a first date because of all her high standards and the constant rotation of guys trying to get a chance with her. Instead of going through the torturous thought cycle on why a girl did not respond to you after a pleasant first date, I made a few rules for myself.
1. Decide if this is a girl you would like to date and possibly get into a mini or more serious relationship with. If your answer is yes then:

• Do not push too hard physically on the first date. Make sure to kiss her (for a few seconds ONLY and no tongue) during the middle of the date and one more time at the end of the night when you are dropping her off. (Never go past a few seconds and you must be the first to pull away from the kiss. You want to appear respectful and leave her wanting more…..which she will grant herself, when she grants you a second date
• Never get carried away with your touching. You must hold her hand, or put your arm around her waist while sitting next to each other or walking. You can rest your hand right above her ass (borderline the small of her back and the beginning of her ass) while hugging or kissing her, but make sure you never start rubbing or grabbing. Just rest your hand there for a few seconds. Never start grabbing privates or molest her too aggressively or you run the risk of scaring her off or give her the impression that all you want is sex which you don’t want to do since you want to date this girl and get a second date.
• Tell her at the end of night (when dropping her off) that you had fun and would like to see her again. (and then gauge what her response is and whether she appears interested in seeing you again). You do not need to give her a date and time, that would be given when you text her. Point is, you want her to know your interested in seeing her again so she won’t think that your not interested in her.
• This one can be a little tricky. Don’t wait 2 or 3 days before contacting her. (if she seems like the type of girl who doesn’t play games) I say you can text her within 24 hours from the first date with something simple like bringing up a funny or exciting moment during the first date so you can get her to think about the fun date she had with you and keep yourself fresh in her memory. It also shows that you are thinking about her without appearing too needy but more importantly it shows that you are not following the 2 or 3 day contact rule. I lost some girls because I waited the 2 or 3 days before texting them. They came to the conclusion that I was either playing games or was never really interested and then cut me off. Like I said, this rule is a tricky one. Use your best judgement on what kind of girl you think she is but if you are genuinely interested in this girl I say text her within 24 hours or 1 full day at most. Its better to let her know your interested then losing her by not texting her in a timely fashion. If she is genuinely interested in you, she will be more than happy to hear from you.
• Come up with a fun idea for a second date and keep it simple by inviting her to join you. Now all you gotta do is just wait for her response.

If she doesn’t respond to your text for a second date after you played the cards right (like the steps I mentioned above) then the fault does not lie in you, BUT THE FAULT IS IN HER. You did everything a guy that is interested in dating a girl would do and now you don’t have to worry and start obsessing if you messed up or not. Just move onto the next girl with NO REGRETS. There is nothing worse then feeling regret when you felt like you messed up your chances with a girl by doing something stupid. In this case, you can go to sleep at night knowing you were a complete gentlemen and this girl was the one who was playing games and not appreciating you so you can easily forget about her. It’s her loss, not yours.

NOTE that these rules does not apply for girls your NOT INTERESTED in dating more than just for sex. If you only want a girl for the wet hole she has between her legs then you can push more aggressively on the first date. If she responds for a second date that’s great if not, who cares? You didn’t want anything else besides sex from her anyways. Just move onto to the next wet hole.

Read more on how to get a girl to respond to you after the first date below:

TheLoneWolfTraveler presents:

When a Girl does not text you back after the first date Survival Guide

This guide was written solely based on my painful and interesting experiences when girls didn’t respond to me after a great first date. I also had a lot of run ins with girls that didn’t respond to my text after they gave me their phone number.
It was tough dealing with it because I HAD NO CLUE WHY these girls didn’t respond to my texts after a perceived fun date where we held hands and kissed. How could a girl like you on a date and show you so much interest and then suddenly disappeared into the thin air when you texted afterwards?
Finding my way out of these dating and texting dilemmas, I came up with a few rules and guidelines that I would stick to, to make sure I made all the right moves, said and texted all the right things, to increase my chances of hearing from a girl after a great first date. These rules and guidelines taught me discipline and self respect and me understand how to handle these situations that girls put us men through. If this guide worked for me, it would work for you; my fellow brothers in arms.
The book covers:

• Rules to follow to make sure your first date goes well
• How to handle the interaction with a girl after the first date
• How, when, and what to text (actual dialogue) her after the first date to ask her out for a second date
• How to handle and what to do when a girl does NOT RESPOND to your texts after the first date
• How to send a second text and even warn her to respond and if she doesn’t she will lose you forever
• When to know to walk away from a pursuit of a girl with NO REGRETS
• Discipline, class, and be a gentleman even in the face of defeat and come back a stronger man
• Tips and actual case scenarios from my personal first date experiences
• And much more!

With this book, it will help guide you through on to deal with girls that flake or don’t respond to your texts after a great first date. You will understand a woman’s mentality and know how to deal with the situation. You can’t go wrong! Increase your chances for a second date, and know what to do and say. It’s all jammed pack in this guide!

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75 pages total

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